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“I told my brother I don’t mind paying for the wedding but I feel really weird that everyone else is involved in the decision and I’m just involved with paying,” she revealed.
“Brother has said that I’m not our parents, I can’t replace our parents and that’s why I’m not involved.”
“Why can’t I just do something nice without making him feel s***. I feel like an a****** for causing drama, but also feel taken advantage of.”
She then clarified that every time she does do things with her brother that aren’t wedding-related, she pays the bill for that too.
She thinks it’s ok for her to have done this all along since she is very close to her brother, and he has emotionally supported her through some tough times in her life, along with her future sister-in-law.
“I still don’t know what to do, but I do think maybe I’m not setting him up for success as I hoped, and also that I do deserve some recognition even if it’s just privately from him,” she concluded.
How would you handle this situation?
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