Her Bridezilla Friend Gave Her An Ultimatum: Dye Her Hair Blonde Or Drop Out Of Being A Bridesmaid, So She Dropped Out
A 23-year-old woman had a friend one year older than her named Bella, and Bella is going to be tying the knot this upcoming summer.
She’s been close to Bella since they were back in second grade, but their long-lasting friendship all came to an abrupt end recently over how Bella handled her wedding planning process.
Unfortunately, Bella was nothing but a bridezilla while planning her wedding, and although she dislikes referring to Bella with such a negative term, there’s no other way to accurately describe her.
“To start off, I’ve had to pay for my own dress which cost over $200,” she explained. “Mind you, I’m still trying to pay off student loans.”
“Other things, which I’ve for some reason agreed to, include covering my tattoos, wearing stilettos that I know I’m gonna fall in, and getting acrylics.”
“I thought that was it, but nope! She wants me to dye my dark brown hair blonde.”
She absolutely cannot dye her hair since it was silver for two years, and during that time, she really wreaked havoc on her hair.
One month ago, she was able to get her hair back to her natural brunette color, but it’s still not healthy.
She let Bella know that she couldn’t put bleach in her hair at all, as she knows it would result in her hair falling right out.
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In response, Bella gave her an ultimatum; she could dye her hair blonde, or she could drop out of being a bridesmaid.
“So I told her I’m gonna drop out and she got extremely upset telling me I was ruining her wedding,” she said.
Word quickly spread to everyone else who is going to be part of Bella’s wedding, and they began sending her nasty messages in the group wedding chat.
“Not only that but her MOH and sister have been sending me a series of passive-aggressive texts saying that I’m being selfish and other things,” she continued.
She didn’t let the remaining people in the wedding party peer pressure her, and she stuck to her choice to no longer be involved in Bella’s wedding.
She did lose her friendship with Bella over all of this, but she knows it’s the right choice.
“Also, for anyone wondering about the $200 dress, I gave it to my sister to use for her Prom night,” she concluded.
Do you think she did the right thing dropping out of Bella’s wedding?
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