Her Daughter Is About To Come Home For Her College Spring Break, But This Mom Revealed That She Doesn’t Want Her To
One mom has twin daughters who are both currently 21-years-old and in college; Lynn and Kia. While she finds Lynn lovely to get along with, Kia is not, and she characterizes Kia as “a problem.”
This mom raised both of her girls to play basketball, and she and her husband were tough on them growing up.
She and her husband definitely did push Lynn and Kia to be their very best selves as kids, and she and her husband believed that both girls could be basketball stars in particular.
Well, they were only half right. Lynn plays basketball for her college team, but Kia got cut from the team that she was playing on.
Kia then ended up transferring to a different college, where she “lives a normal college experience” and that makes Kia feel bad.
“Kia has a lot of issues in general,” this mom explained. “She has an extreme fear of vomiting, to the point where she avoids foods bc she’s afraid of food poisoning.”
“She gets afraid that she’s pregnant…(once took 10 tests over the course of 4 months. ALL negative). But worst of all, she hates me and her father, and constantly verbally abuses us.”
“She said we controlled every aspect of her life, never gave her a say, constantly forced her into things she never wanted to do, yelled at her over basketball, refused to let her try new things, refused to let her hang out with her friends, couldn’t go a week without yelling or finding something to pick on, and that we used to be “rough” with her.”
Kia says that she and her husband are terrible, evil people. Every single time that Kia comes home from college for a break, she freaks out on them about something and creates issues.
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Kia thinks that she and her husband yelled at her too much for basketball, and she can’t stop taking her anger out on them.
It’s at the point where this mom feels heartbroken that Kia is totally different as a person from how she was as a kid.
Although she and her husband have said sorry to Kia repeatedly, Kia doesn’t want to hear it, let alone accept their apologies.
“We ask what we can do to make up for it, and it’s always “nothing” or “You should’ve listened to me when you had the chance,” this mom said.
“I have made a genuine effort to change. She’s acknowledged it. I told her I’d pay for therapy/meds, but she won’t budge.
On the rare occasion, Kia can be alright, but as soon as she’s back home under their roof, she changes into a nightmare.
It’s gotten so bad that she made it clear to Kia she can no longer come home for her upcoming spring break from college.
Kia asked what she should do instead since she missed the deadline to remain on campus.
“I told her to figure it out, and that I can’t be around her until she’s medicated and in a better state of mind,” this mom continued.
“She texted me and told me that if I don’t let her come home, she’ll never talk to us again. Idk how true that is because she’s not financially independent, but it makes me sick to my stomach.”
The reality is, she has been diagnosed with cancer, and she is right smack dap in renovating her house, so she can’t handle Kia in addition to all of this.
This mom really has no clue what to do.
What do you think she should do about Kia?
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