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Instead, she tries to pitch the idea of eloping somewhere beautiful and having a small ceremony in the summer of 2023. The fiancé does not agree with this as he thinks “it would be “weird” to have a celebration after we’ve already been married.”
“Whenever I picture the wedding day, I don’t feel joy I just feel disappointment because of how few people there will be from my side and I want to cry.”
She is also a very private person that doesn’t feel comfortable announcing her vows in front of everyone he plans on inviting.
She wants to do a weekend getaway with just the two of them and have a follow-up party after they return. Her fiancé disagrees and says that type of ceremony is untraditional.
With the way she has been feeling, this bride-to-be is looking for answers and is now expecting her fiancé to plan the entire wedding if it means she cannot have a say in how she wants it to go.
As of right now, the future bride has been doing all of the planning by herself.
“Considering I am the only one who’s made any effort in planning, I want to tell him that if he insists on having a wedding to get married, then he will have to do all the planning and a majority of the payment. It seems unfair to do most of the planning and spend money for something that I don’t even want and will end up being mostly only for his family and friends.”
Putting the bride’s emotions into perspective, is she in the wrong for feeling this way? Should she go through with the wedding or move on to someone who will truly appreciate her wants and needs?
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