Her Roommate Read Her Diary And Got Upset That She Talked About Her Disaster Of A Dating Life
A woman in her mid-20s has a roommate around the same age as her named Jen, and they have lived in their apartment together for the last 3 years.
She considers Jen to be a good friend of hers, but she’s not a fan of her disaster of a dating life.
“Jen is always dating and IMO, she has terrible taste in men,” she explained.
“She always dates guys who are emotionally unavailable and selfish. She’s beautiful and fun so she never has problems finding guys to date, but she hates being single so will always settle for the first guy who comes along and will let them get away with anything.”
When Jen gets fed up with her current boyfriend, she begins trying to find a new one to replace her old one with.
As soon as she has the next guy ready to go, only then does she break up with the guy that she’s seeing.
“She’s also the type of person who takes on the personality and interests of whomever she’s dating,” she said.
“It’s frustrating to me because I care about her and she’s always getting hurt. But honestly, it’s also frustrating to me because she’s always asking me for advice and then ignoring it.”
She pretty recently told Jen that it’s probably time for her to take a break and not see any guys for a couple of months.
Rostislav Sedlacek – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purpose only, not the actual person
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She mentioned to Jen that being single would be a great opportunity for her to put herself first and focus on her emotional wellbeing.
Although Jen seemed to want to take her advice, she insisted that she could not go a couple of months without having a boyfriend.
Several weeks back, she made an entry in her diary before going to bed, and the topic was Jen and her dating life.
“I wrote about Jen and how hard it was to watch her date all of these guys who treated her like trash, and how she deserved better,” she continued.
“I’d mentioned our conversation about her refusal to stay single and how I’d been frustrated by it. Most of it was things I’d already said to her face, with the exception of how frustrated I was getting.”
What she wrote about Jen was just a little piece, and she wrote a lot more that night regarding other topics than her roommate.
2 weekends ago, she took a trip to see her family, and when she got back to her apartment, Jen was waiting for her.
While she had been gone, Jen looked through her belongings and read her diary. Jen found the entry about her dating life, and she was livid.
Jen accused her of judging and shaming her for her dating choices and that it wasn’t something that should concern her.
At first, she was extremely upset to see how angry Jen was, but then it dawned on her that Jen completely violated her privacy by going through her room and her diary.
Although she pointed out to Jen that it wasn’t ok for her to have gone through her things and read her diary, Jen brushed it off and maintained that she was happy she read her diary.
After their argument, Jen left their apartment and stayed at her boyfriend’s place. Some of the friends that she and Jen share have sent her texts weighing in on the situation.
Some of her and Jen’s friends think that she crossed a line writing about Jen in her diary, while the rest of their friends think Jen was rude to go through her things.
Do you think it was wrong of her to write about Jen in her diary?
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