His Fiancée Is Still Wearing The Wedding Ring From Her Late Husband And He Wants Her To Stop As Soon As They Tie The Knot

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A 31-year-old man has a 30-year-old fiancée named Ellie, and they’re going to be tying the knot later on in 2022.

Prior to meeting him, Ellie was married. Sadly, Ellie’s husband passed away along with their unborn baby in a terrible accident.

Ever since she lost her husband, Ellie has continued wearing the wedding ring that he gave to her, though instead of wearing it on her left hand, which is the traditional way to wear a wedding ring, she switched to wearing it on her right.

“I thought it was awkward before but didn’t really care much, but recently I’ve realized that it’s kind of weird for her to keep wearing a ring from her ex when she’s getting married to me,” he explained.

“It’s not like she wears the ring sometimes, she’s always wearing it, like how some people have necklaces or bracelets they always wear.”

He did approach Ellie about this, pointing out that he respects that she can wear anything she likes but that it really bothers him, and he wants her to no longer wear her old wedding ring.

Ellie was upset when he told her that, as she doesn’t want to take that ring off her hand ever, let alone after they tie the knot.

“She actually went as far as to say she’ll wear the ring on our wedding day since she wears it everywhere, and we had an argument,” he said.

“After which she said that she’ll take it off for the ceremony but may put it back on for the reception afterward.”

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Ellie feels that he’s being mean over a ring that holds so much meaning to her, but again, he just can’t understand why it means enough to her that she feels the need to wear it every single day.

Ellie was married to her late husband for less than a year, which he also thinks should support the fact that Ellie should put her ring away since their marriage wasn’t for very long.

“I think I have the right to not want her to wear it,” he continued. “It’s not like it’s just a normal ring from a friend or something.”

He has consulted his own parents, as well as Ellie’s too, and they all are on his side. They all feel that it’s strange for Ellie to keep wearing her old wedding ring, though Ellie’s sister thinks he’s a terrible person for taking up an issue with this.

He really feels that Ellie will be disrespecting him by wearing this ring when they are officially married.

Do you think he has every right to feel slighted by Ellie’s ring, or do you think he should move on from this?

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