She Went Through A Major Glow Up, But She’s Sad That Her Closest Friends Never Acknowledged It
A 32-year-old woman has spent the last couple of years going through a major glow up.
Part of the work that she has put in on herself includes dropping 20 pounds, getting her nose fixed, going for a new hairstyle, wearing different makeup, getting braces, and creating a unique style for herself.
Understandably, her confidence is through the roof after doing all of this, and many people in her life praised her for what she did.
Unfortunately, though, her 3 closest girlfriends have not acknowledged anything related to her glow up over the years.
“Mind you, when I notice something new about them I always hype them up,” she explained. “They do the same with each other as well. When it comes to me recently, nothing.”
“At first I thought maybe it was such little change they didn’t notice. The first thing I did was lose weight. No comment on it, but we hyped up my friend who looked like she lost weight.”
“I thought maybe my weight loss wasn’t noticeable so I just left it and celebrated my friend.”
Several weeks after that incident, she went from wearing supersized shirts and only leggings, to putting on clothing that really did flatter her figure.
She was making sure her outfits were on trend from then on. She also changed her hair color and got herself some bangs.
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Then, she grabbed dinner with her friends, hoping they would be as thrilled as she was with all of her new changes.
When she sat down alongside them though, they did not make a single comment, yet they wanted to talk about what they were all excited or proud of in their own lives.
As she sat there, she figured that although she had changed, she really had not changed enough for her friends to have taken note.
“A year passed,” she said. “I lost more weight (5”5 and went from 140lbs to 116lbs) found my personal style, got braces, changed my makeup to fit my features, and fixed my buffalo hump/posture.”
“Still nothing, so I keep telling myself I still look the same.”
A year after that, she got a rhinoplasty, knowing her friends couldn’t ignore that, and yet they did. They still had nothing to say.
When she got dinner with her friends again yesterday evening, she was making kind comments about her friends, and she was so disappointed that they didn’t compliment her back on anything.
Dinner came to an end, and she did a before photo and after photo of her glow up on social media. Her friends clearly saw it but did not say anything then.
“I couldn’t sleep all night because I don’t understand why they don’t hype me up the way we all hype each other up,” she continued.
“I’m really hurt, these were some of my closest friends they were even my bridesmaids for my wedding.”
“I thought about bringing it up with the group but I thought it sounded like I was fishing for compliments or just sound vain.”
Do you think her friends are jealous, and that’s why they haven’t said anything?
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