Well, The Heat Got To Him On His Date, And He Thinks He Messed Up With This Girl He Likes Big Time

A 23-year-old guy recently met up with a girl his own age to go out for a date. This wasn’t their first date, as they had gotten together before, but this ended up being their worst date by far.
He really does have a crush on this girl, and he even went on two dates already with her in the span of one week.
Things between them started out wonderful. “Flirty, good flowing conversation, and I could tell she liked me,” he explained.
“We even kissed the first time we met. I felt very confident about the direction this was going.”
Well, yesterday, this girl surprisingly got a day off from her job, so she reached out to him to see if they could hang out and spend time together.
She picked the place of their date, which happened to be on a patio with absolutely no shade, and it was extraordinarily hot outside.
So there he was, sitting across from his date, dripping sweat because the sun was out in full force.
“We sat on the patio, ordered one drink, and suddenly I started pulling blanks in the conversation,” he said.
“She would ask me a question and I would completely not know what to say and give short…answers.”

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“As comments were leaving my mouth even I was cringing. I could tell people at the tables around us were probably thinking “this guy has zero game.” At one point I asked what she was doing later that day and she said she was going out with her parents because IT WAS HER BIRTHDAY.”
The heat absolutely got to him that day, and it made him forget that it was even this girl’s birthday. She had mentioned to him on another date that her birthday was upcoming, and he still forgot.
“Shortly after that, with our drinks not even empty, she called over a waiter and asked to get the bill without asking if I was ready to go,” he continued.
“My heart sank. I paid and we went to our cars. I am not an awkward person and have no idea what got into me.”
He’s thinking it was a combination of the heat and perhaps running out of conversation topics since they had seen one another two times in just a couple of days.
He’s left feeling really down about what happened, and he’s curious if he can still salvage things between him and this girl.
Do you think he should try reaching out to her and explaining the situation from his perspective?
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