She’s Been Dating A Guy 4 Years Younger Than She Is, And He Just Said That She’s Too Old For Him To Be With Forever

A 32-year-old woman has been dating a guy who is 4 years younger than she is, and she really does like the relationship that they have.
They communicate excellently, and they really do get each other. They have the same goals for their lives, and they both want kids and have discussed that.
“I’ve dated and lived with men, and they’ve never really felt quite right until now,” she explained. “It’s hard to put a finger on what makes this feel different, but it just is.”
Not everything about this guy is perfect, but she accepts him for who he is, and she wants to be with him long-term.
Unfortunately, his view on her age might be the thing to ruin them being together forever.
A day ago, she teased this guy about how old she is before wondering if it was something that irritated him.
When she asked this question, she completely thought that he would say her being 4 years older than him did not bother him at all.
He first tried to say he did not want to discuss this particular topic, and she pushed back that she did want to hear his thoughts on her age.
“He told me that my age does bother him because it means we can’t be together forever. I was shocked,” she said.

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“He said it’s been on his mind recently because he really likes me and can see a future with me, that I’m everything he ever imagined in a future wife, but my age has been holding him back.”
He then confessed that he had been speaking to his loved ones about his feelings about her age, and they couldn’t believe that he would get hung up on that.
“He wants 5+ kids (I do too, 3-5, and before I met him), and he said with the 2ish years he would need in a relationship to be completely sure, I just wouldn’t have the biological time to have his kids,” she continued.
She was incredibly upset by his words, and she felt bad that he was bringing this all up to her.
He did appear to be regretful as he unloaded all of this on her, and she’s left thinking that she really can convince him otherwise.
“Now, the thing is, I know we are right for each other,” she concluded. “I know that I can give him the life he wants, though maybe not the one he thinks he wants right now (although I do still think I’m young enough that 5 kids aren’t a stretch).”
Do you think she should end things with him or try to work on convincing him that she is the best person for him, even if she’s only 4 years older?
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