She Accidentally Found Messages Her Boyfriend Sent To His Best Friend Saying That He Knows He Can Find A Better Girl Than Her
A 25-year-old girl has been dating her boyfriend for 2 years now, and he’s the same age as her.
Several weeks ago, she accidentally came across some messages her boyfriend had sent to his best friend.
She was on her boyfriend’s phone trying to send some photos he had of her to herself when she found a whole bunch of messages talking about her, and what he had to say really wasn’t all that nice.
“The conversation starts with his friend asking him if he is satisfied with the relationship, and my boyfriend says, “she’s the best partner/love interest.., but sometimes I feel like I can do better, she’s pretty, just not the most pretty,” she explained.
Her boyfriend moved on to talking about having a desire to sleep with other girls, and then he admitted that the first several months of a relationship are always the best.
She was crushed to read that, and she spent the next several weeks not telling her boyfriend about what she had seen on his phone.
She tried her best not to let his comments bother her, without any success. She’s been living with her boyfriend for 2 years, and she thought everything between them was going well.
“…I never expected him to say something as hurtful as this about me, given that I have been very loving and loyal to this guy,” she said.
“We have shared furniture, a pet, and a trip planned to Turkey this month. Whenever I look at his face, all I can think is, is he thinking it now?”
Drobot Dean – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purpose only, not the actual person
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“That He can do better than me? Sometimes I am going about my day, and my brain plays his words in my head. I feel like I’m going to have to go sleep with other guys just to feel worthy again.”
Eventually, she did confront her boyfriend about his messages to his best friend, and they got into a disagreement for an entire week.
Her boyfriend did end up sobbing and saying sorry, but it did not make her feel better at all.
She really believes he is her soulmate, so she will regret it forever if she chooses to dump him over what he said in confidence to his best friend.
Still, she’s wondering if her boyfriend qualifies as just “young and curious,” and that’s why he said what he did in the first place.
Do you think that makes sense, or do you think he really is not that into her?
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