Her Best Friend From Childhood Is About To Marry Her Ex-Boyfriend, So She Said There’s No Way She Wants To Be A Bridesmaid
A 29-year-old woman has a friend the same age as her named Jane, and she and Jane go way back.
They began their friendship back in middle school, and then after they both graduated high school, they wound up attending colleges in different states.
She picked a college in Georgia, and Jane picked a college in California. Despite the distance between them, though, they still made an effort to see one another.
“During college, Jane and I visited each other – she’s younger than me, so I flew to LA for her 21st birthday, and we always met up when we were home, etc.,” she explained.
“My junior year, I met Kyle (senior at the time). After he graduated, he moved to NYC for a job. While I did not intend to stay on the East Coast, I ended up also moving to NYC, partially to be with him.”
“Kyle decided he wants a change of pace and wants to move to LA. We talked a lot about it I said if we could wait 6 months and move together since I just got promoted.”
Well, Kyle didn’t wait around for her at all. Instead, he landed a new job, picked up, and moved to LA that year in May.
Just a couple of months prior to Kyle’s move, Jane had actually relocated to LA as well. As luck would have it, Kyle and Jane ended up spending time together.
She knows that Kyle and Jane knew one another quite well since Jane had come to her college to see her, and she also invited Kyle to come home with her on breaks when she also hung out with Jane.
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So, Kyle and Jane were hardly strangers, but anyway, she was still in a relationship with Kyle when he made his move out to LA. She and Kyle began arguing quite a bit after he moved and that August, they split up for good. Although they did break up, they continued speaking to one another, and Kyle revealed that LA wasn’t exactly for him, so he was planning to return to New York.
Around when Covid happened, some of her friends mentioned to her that they suspected Kyle and Jane were dating. She went right to Jane and questioned her about it, and Jane replied that they were only friends and spending time together because Kyle was still new to the area and didn’t know anyone.
But she knew that Jane was lying to her face because her social media posts told a different story.
“Jane was constantly posting stories on Instagram, and they looked “too close” to be just friends I didn’t believe her,” she said.
“She kept saying they’re just friends, and I unfollowed both of them on Instagram, and neither of them said anything. Jane and I haven’t really talked since everything happened. Jane asked me to be a bridesmaid, and I said no; I felt it would be a little uncomfortable for me. I felt Kyle had been stringing me a long while he was in LA, and I feel awkward that they weren’t honest about it from the beginning.”
Jane has not accepted her no for an answer; Jane has been pushing her to have her new boyfriend come to the wedding too. Kyle also thinks it would be great for her to bring her boyfriend. Meanwhile, Jane and her own sister believe she’s being dramatic and needs to agree to be a bridesmaid.
She’s left wondering if it was mean of her to say no to Jane in the first place. Do you think she should agree to be a bridesmaid after all?
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