Then, he claims that his mom attempted to pull the “family card” and guilt trip him about the fact that his cousin has no money.
“But I said that my cousin has no money because of her divorce. It’s a sham wedding, and her dad wouldn’t support it, and she knows that,” he vented.
He even told his family that there was a reason his grandfather did not entrust the property to his own children.
Plus, he claimed that his other cousins have all been “good people,” which is why he was willing to help them out. As for this cousin and his aunt, though, he believes that they are just rude. Yikes!
So, his mom actually ended up threatening him regarding the upcoming holiday and claimed that if he did not help out his cousin, then he would not be invited to the family Christmas party.
Ironically, though, his grandfather’s house– which is obviously now his house– is where the holiday celebration is held every single year. In turn, he told his mother that she better find a different venue to host Christmas, too!
Now, practically his entire family is angry at him, and his dad will not stop calling him a jerk. So, even though he believes his stance on the situation is valid, he has been left wondering if refusing to host his cousin’s second wedding on his grandfather’s property is actually the right thing to do or not.
Do you think his grandfather’s views on marriage are worth honoring or not? After someone inherits a property, are they required to honor the beliefs of the former property owner? What if they directly go against your family’s current situation? If you were in his shoes, would you host the wedding or deny it?
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