Her Daughter Is Getting Married, But She’s Not Invited Because It Seems Her Daughter Is Afraid That She Will Outshine Her On Her Wedding Day

This 42-year-old woman has a daughter who is 23, and as her daughter grew older, their relationship got strained.
She says this is due to the fact that she’s pretty conventionally attractive, and her daughter began to feel “self-conscious” next to her.
When her daughter was still a child, her daughter was loving and kind towards her, and her daughter meant everything to her.
But, as her daughter grew up, she started to really resent her, especially when people would make mean remarks about her looks.
She did her best to protect her daughter from the cruelty of others the best that she could, but she could only do so much.
She believed that the love she had for her daughter could help pull her out of all of this, but then her daughter accused her of feeling sorry for her.
“Her late teens were especially brutal,” she explained. “My baby was hurting, and I felt helpless. We tried everything, like therapy, changing scenery, etc., but nothing got better. I’ve always loved fashion and looking nice, but I stopped wearing makeup or beautiful clothes because I hated seeing her being devastated every time I got compliments.”
“Before moving to another city for college, she told me that she hated me. She thought I was a disgusting gold digger who married an ugly man for his money, not thinking how her children would turn out to be. I met my husband when I was 18, and he was 35 at a bar. I never saw him as ugly.”
“He swept me off my feet with his sense of humor and kindness and his beautiful eyes. He is the most handsome man I know, and I still light up whenever I see his face. He is very rich, yes, and I loved that too; life is so much easier if you’re happy and you have the means to make the rest easy.”

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It cut her deep to have her daughter say that to her. She has heard other people make comments about how she has to be a gold digger, but she always was able to shake that off.
She does love her husband, and her daughter could see that all along, so it crushed her to have her daughter make such a false accusation.
When her daughter entered college, it actually improved the relationship that she had with her. Although her daughter didn’t involve her that much in her life, her daughter was able to begin living a life of her own, where she felt that she was no longer in the shadow of her mom.
Her daughter blossomed. Her daughter was happy. She has happy for her daughter too, and she was thrilled to see that her daughter was beginning to believe that she was gorgeous and special in her own right.
She pretty much only got to see her daughter for the holidays, but she was ok with that because she knew her daughter was thriving.
Her daughter recently got engaged, and over this past holiday season, she was invited to spend time with that family.
“I met her fiancé’s family this Christmas,” she said. “Amazing people. Very warm and welcoming. The future mother-in-law suggested a skiing trip just for the girls to get to know each other better since she has a condo in Austria. We came back the day before NYE.”
“My daughter didn’t talk to me throughout the trip or since we got home. She didn’t answer my Happy New Year text. Because guys kept trying to talk to me and buying us drinks on the trip, which was met with laughter from the other girls but my daughter.”
“Now my daughter texted me that she didn’t want me at her wedding in July. Her father is invited since he is gonna be the one to walk her, but I wasn’t welcome. I have cried ever since but I don’t know what to do.”
Her husband is furious, and he would like to skip out on attending the wedding in light of the fact that she’s not invited.
Her husband mentioned to her that he’s done with their daughter finding wats to hurt her since she’s been doing that for 10 years straight.
She’s contemplating letting her husband follow through with his threat not to walk their daughter down the aisle or go to the wedding, but the one thing that’s holding her back is the fear that this will “add” to the “suffering” her daughter has been through.
Her daughter loves her husband very much, and it would destroy her daughter not to have her dad walk her down the aisle, but her husband is so livid, and it seems his mind is already made up.
“I asked him to give me time; he agreed, but he said he will need to tell her his decision eventually,” she concluded. “I need help on how to move on with this.”
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