Katharina Buczek
“I said that I imagined the accommodation would change to us both staying the night in the same room,” she explained.
She also pointed out how her brother-in-law and sister-in-law both get to share rooms with their spouses. So, she claimed it just did not make sense to her.
Her mother-in-law was clearly just uncomfortable with her and her wife’s marriage, though, because the reasoning was so flawed.
In fact, her mother-in-law simply claimed to think that it “would be more appropriate” for them to sleep separately.
So, after she told her wife about what her mother-in-law had said, her wife agreed that it was totally outrageous– especially because they were only going to be staying there for one night and leaving in the morning.
She also just could not let her in-law’s behavior slide and believed it was simply too disrespectful. In turn, she told her wife that she would not be able to stay that night.
Then, after her wife agreed, she ended up finding a hotel and booking a room at the last minute.
Afterward, they left in the middle of the night, even though her mother-in-law would not stop protesting their decision.
Now, at the time, she and her wife thought that they were completely justified in standing up for themselves against that unequal treatment. By the next morning, though, she started to question her decision.
Apparently, she received a call from her father-in-law, who accused her of being selfish and petty.
He also claimed that she was preventing him and his family from seeing her wife and children– who are his daughter and grandchildren.
