He Wishes He Could Just Fall Out Of Love With His Wife So He Can Finally Divorce Her Because She’s Definitely Cheating On Him
This 38-year-old man has been with his 36-year-old wife for a year more than a decade now, and they tied the knot 8 years ago.
For all the years that he has been with his wife, he honestly believed their relationship was wonderful.
Yes, like any couple, they have had good moments and bad moments, and the pandemic really was tough on them, but they made it through, and he thought everything was alright.
That all changed, though, 6 months back when he noticed his wife was not “acting” like she normally does.
“At first, I thought she was just in a rough spot, but then I started seeing red flags about her cheating,” he explained.
“The usual changes in dress, behavior towards certain people, more focus on makeup and the like. Having been cheated on before, this triggered things in me.”
“I raised them with her, and she assured me she loves me. I asked if she was cheating and named someone I’d seen her get quite close to recently. I got a qualified response that she is definitely not interested in a relationship with that person. She didn’t say that she’s not interested in them, just that she’s not interested in a relationship with them.”
The thing is, he knows for a fact that his wife is cheating on him because his wife confessed her secret to someone in her life who turned around and told him because they’re literally the worst at keeping secrets.
Recently, he also saw that his wife was looking at her email one evening, and he came across a dating profile she has under her maiden name.
alonesdj – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Clearly, his wife has been on this particular dating app for more than a year, and he’s beginning to believe she has never been loyal to him.
“She’s crossed red lines and continues to go to sleep each night knowing that our commitment to each other is a lie,” he said.
“But I still love her. I want to grow old with her. But I want and need to stop loving her so I can get the courage to tell her to leave and get a divorce so I can move on with my life. Then maybe one day I can find someone who cares enough about me so that we can share a life wholly together rather than living a lie.”
So, he’s left wishing that he can fall out of love with his wife so he can move ahead with divorcing her.
Do you have any advice for him?
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