Her Boyfriend Constantly Talks About His Ex, So She Decided To Reach Out To This Girl, And She Found Out That Her Boyfriend Has A “Dark Side” She Never Knew About
This 29-year-old woman has been dating her 31-year-old boyfriend for 2 years, and as soon as she met him, she liked him.
They got along great, and they really felt connected to one another immediately. Several months into dating her boyfriend, they decided to discuss their exes.
She revealed to her boyfriend that she had been married yet got divorced pretty peacefully after she and her then-husband realized they were not fit for marriage because they were “too young.”
He told her that his ex-girlfriend was the one who broke up with him, and she wasn’t loyal, as she left him for some other guy after a year of dating.
“Throughout the course of our relationship, he always mentions her,” she explained. “Every topic we have somehow turns into a conversation about his ex and how she’s a bad person that would rather sleep around than be with him.”
“He also kept mentioning that she didn’t stay with him when he needed her the most and that she is a vile woman that’s not to be trusted. Yesterday, I got fed up because it was two years of him constantly obsessing over his ex, that left him 9 years ago!”
“I then decided to do some good old social media creeping and potentially see what she’s like. After years of talking about her, I got way too curious.”
She was able to find her boyfriend’s ex on social media, and she learned a lot just based on what her boyfriend’s ex had publicly put on the internet.
She could see that her boyfriend’s ex is a married mom with 2 young kids and a very good-looking husband.
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Her boyfriend’s ex lives in an enormous house located in suburbia. This woman has traveled extensively, she’s educated, and she doesn’t look like the terrible person her boyfriend has made her out to be.
She decided to send her boyfriend’s ex a message saying she wanted to know more about, well, what her relationship with her boyfriend had been like.
She was shocked to get a reply back, and her boyfriend’s ex said that the relationship was nothing but a nightmare.
Her boyfriend’s ex said that her boyfriend was controlling and abusive. He ended up punching holes in her walls, he destroyed phones that she owned, and he constantly put her down.
Her boyfriend cheated on his ex, he went out of his wife to embarrass her in public, and he made threats to this woman’s loved ones.
Her boyfriend’s ex had screenshotted messages and saved photos proving her side of the story, which she got to see for herself.
Her boyfriend’s ex relied on her friends to help her get out of the relationship, and she ended up leaving to go live in another country without him knowing she was leaving. She essentially hopped on a plane and never looked back.
“What’s worse is that in the years he left her, he has not stopped attempting to contact her,” she said.
“She sent me screenshots of him sending nice messages to her, then a barrage of hateful messages once she doesn’t respond. He continued sending birthday messages and texting her mom, who eventually had to change her number.”
“He also continued to add her on social media and email her, apologizing to her and pretending to want to be friends with her. This year, behind my back, he sent her birthday messages and how it was nice to see her (impossible because we don’t live in the same place as her). She responded that he needed to stop messaging her because she’s married, a mom, and really doesn’t want him around. She sent me all those, plus the multiple attempts of him trying to add her on social media.”
After getting to interact with her boyfriend’s ex, she thought she was nothing but a wonderful person, and she’s left feeling horrified about all of the information she learned.
She has not brought any of this up to her boyfriend, yet he’s still going on and on about his ex. She can’t believe what she did find out about her boyfriend, and she also is alarmed that he’s completely and utterly “obsessed” with his ex after close to a decade.
Do you think she should say nothing and leave him, or do you think having a conversation about how things really went down with his ex will get somewhere?
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