Chip Chick
Later on, he discovered that their daughter had stashed her soaked swimsuit in their garage in an effort to cover up the evidence.
He obviously told his wife about this, and he insisted that she had to punish their daughter not only for swimming earlier when she shouldn’t have but also for completely lying to them both.
It ended up being a blowout fight between him and his wife, and in the end, she gave their daughter barely any kind of punishment.
“The lying, blaming, and favoritism ultimately caused the teens to act out, understandably,” he said.
“Most of their consequences are done by giving more chores. Specifically the chores the 6-year-old has. Or recently, they were removed from music lessons as a consequence. I believe they’re so frustrated they don’t even care when they verbally attack their mother after her unfair treatment towards them.”
“After all, they already get blamed and punished for things they don’t even do; from my perspective, lashing out gives them a release.”
He and his wife fight nonstop about all of this, yet get nowhere. He’s so fed up that he thought it might be time to give his wife, who is a stay-at-home mom, a performance review that he wrote out to show her.
He even included things she needed to improve upon, and that was the majority of what he wrote up to discuss with her.
As he sat down to write the performance review for his wife, he pointed out that she needs to be a better listener to the teens and quit favoring their daughter over everyone else.
He reminded her that she needs to treat all the kids fairly, and he also noted that she should give all the kids time to speak alone about something.
“So it wouldn’t be an entirely slap to her face; I gave her accolades on her strong points for other areas aside from parenting,” he continued.
