She Found Her Boyfriend’s Secret Diary Where He Confessed To Being Completely In Love With A Celebrity, So Now She’s Thinking Their Relationship Can’t Be Saved
This 23-year-old girl has a boyfriend who is 25, and at the beginning of their relationship, her boyfriend was what she describes as “sedentary.”
Her boyfriend never bothered working out at the gym, and he ate very badly. Suddenly, in January of last year, her boyfriend began acting quite differently.
Initially, she figured her boyfriend had made some kind of resolution for the new year to take better care of himself, which she was thrilled with.
But then she began noticing that he got more and more different from the guy that she thought she knew.
Her boyfriend spent months interviewing for new positions and landed a different job. He then started playing the piano and getting into singing for fun. He learned how to speak Korean.
He was acting in a way that was far more “outgoing,” and he also went on a couple of trips without her.
“At this point, I was still very happy,” she explained. “But then I started noticing changes in our relationship.”
“He became less attentive, and it felt like he was with me just because he had to be. He put in zero extra effort, and everything would have to be initiated by me.”
She honestly was concerned that he had found someone else and was cheating on her. She finally decided she had to dig through his laptop and phone in an effort to find some evidence of this.
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It’s not like her to go snooping, but she was so worried that cheating was the reason why her boyfriend had changed so drastically.
She didn’t find a single thing that indicated her boyfriend had found someone new, but she did discover a secret diary her boyfriend kept.
“I’m still a bit shocked at what I read, and it all feels so surreal,” she said. “Long story short: he’s supposedly in love with an idol who doesn’t know he exists and lives in another country.”
“He went to her concert and met her at a fan meet. He watches her videos all day, both her music videos and vlogs.”
“He admits that he has no chance of being with her as she has millions of others fawning over her, but he still got his life in order using her as his motivation. Two verbatim quotes: he has “fallen in love with her personality,” and what he feels for her is “unlike anything I’ve ever felt before.”
In light of this new information, she’s not sure their relationship can be saved. When she tried to address with him what she found in his diary, he avoided the real conversation she was trying to have.
Instead of trying to talk through everything with her, he just got upset that she went through his things without asking.
Do you think their relationship is doomed because he’s in love with a celebrity and not her?
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