She’s Pregnant With Twins, And Her Husband Just Revealed That He Is No Longer Attracted To Her
This 27-year-old woman has been with her 33-year-old husband for 7 years now, and they tied the knot 3 years ago.
Her husband was her first everything, such as her first boyfriend and her first kiss. As for her husband, he already was experienced coming into their relationship.
Now, she’s currently pregnant with twins, and she and her husband really did plan this all out. As soon as she got 12 weeks into her pregnancy, her husband stopped being affectionate with her.
He brushed it off as just stress from his job, and she accepted that as an answer. Several weeks after she and her husband had this conversation, she brought up to him that they really were going a long time without any kind of affection.
Her husband questioned her if she was cheating on him, which shocked her. She doesn’t think it’s ok to say something like that unless you’re convinced that’s what’s happening and you can back it up.
She felt insulted and disgusted that her husband could even suggest that she wasn’t loyal, and she told him that.
He instantly became silent, as she insisted she never would find someone else before reminding him that if she wasn’t into their marriage, she would exit it the right way.
Her husband then started showing emotions and stated he was freaking out about money because he had a few outstanding debts that totaled $5,000.
Following his revealing to her that he was anxious about owing money, she decided to give him $7,500 from her savings account in an effort to make him feel better.
Liubov Levytska – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Not only has she spent the past decade working full-time and saving her money, but she also began investing a couple of years ago, so she has a nice nest egg.
She informed her husband that she gave him money to help him cover his debts, though he just asked what she was talking about.
All she could do was stare back and remind him that they had literally just got done talking about him owing money, and he had cried all over her as he said that.
Her husband just said that he wasn’t having a great day before walking over to sit on their couch.
“The whole thing felt so weird, so I went out and asked him for details about the debts,” she explained.
“After 20 minutes of back and forth, he finally admitted he isn’t stressed about debt and isn’t having any money problems, he just isn’t attracted to me anymore.”
It’s worth mentioning that she has always been self-conscious about herself, though she hasn’t shared this with her husband in all the years that they have been together, and right now, she thinks she looks good.
She has put on between 25 to 30 pounds with her pregnancy, but she is still able to go to work and go to the gym too.
She was furious with her husband for saying he’s no longer attracted to her, because he was the one who begged her to have a child for 2 years.
“I’m giving him two, and now he’s saying I’m ugly because of my belly,” she said. “Pregnancy hormones and whatnot, I started crying a little but wiping them away as fast as I could because I was more mad than sad.”
“He said it’s not me, it’s the pregnancy, and he’s concerned about the long-term effects on my body after seeing videos of postpartum bodies and C-section scars. Then told me it wasn’t fair that I was upset because he was having a “natural male reaction,” and I’m manipulating his feelings. He’s never said anything like this before, either.”
In the end, she implored her husband to spend a couple of nights outside of their home with a friend or something so she could have some breathing room.
Since then, her husband has been sleeping over at his sister’s house, and his sister has called her up to ask about what’s going on as she and her husband never get into arguments at all.
She is completely worn out from being pregnant, and she really didn’t need to hear her husband say she’s not attractive anymore.
She also has cried a lot over her husband’s confession.
“He has sent flowers and pregnancy craving foods and notes saying that he loves me and he’s sorry, but that’s all they say,” she continued.
“Not I’m sorry for stressing you out, which inadvertently stresses out our children. Not sorry for lying to you for weeks, if not months. Just “I love you always, I’m sorry, please call me.” His sister kept texting me, and then SHE had the nerve to ask if I cheated on him, too, so I told her what happened and what he said.”
“She told me she chewed him out and told his parents, too. His mom called this morning and said that no matter what, she and her daughter/my sister-in-law are here for me, so that helps, I guess. They know that my parents both have passed away, and I’m not very close to the rest of my family. I haven’t bit the bullet and told any of my friends yet because once I tell them, it becomes a little too real. And too embarrassing.”
How do you think she should handle this going forward?
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