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Her husband also claimed that if she met a guy and wanted to be friends with them, he would have no issue with that before concluding that he feels as if she does not trust him at all.
“I told him this was very all of the sudden and asked him where it was coming from,” she explained.
“I asked if he had met a nurse there. And he said yes, that’s an example of it. I don’t mind him having friends that are girls, I don’t. He has a bunch, all people who he’s known since like 8th grade.”
Her husband also has a couple of female friends from work, and she has no problems with them either.
It’s not that she doesn’t want her husband hanging out with women; it’s that she is suspicious of how his friendship with this particular nurse he wants to stay in touch with began.
Specifically, she feels that there is zero reason for this nurse to be a part of her husband’s life outside of his time spent at the hospital.
“It’s not like I would be comfortable with just them hanging out or going out,” she said. “Besides having common interests, laughs, and all those things, I just don’t see how it would be needed for him.”
“He already has a ton of really close friends…I also know he would never be okay with me being like, “Hey, I met a guy, and we hit it off as “friends,” and we exchanged contacts”…like no…it’s just honestly hurtful. Maybe I’m out of pocket for thinking this way, but he’s married…to me.”
“Like, what am I not fulfilling in your life that you feel you need to find elsewhere? Or what’s so great about her that you HAVE TO AND WANT TO have her in your life so badly? I’m not saying she’s not cool, I’m sure she’s so sweet.”
So, her husband addressed wanting to be friends with this nurse 2 months back, and a day ago, she decided to snoop through her husband’s phone.
She admits it was wrong of her to do that, but she really wanted to see if he was talking to this nurse anyway.
