This Mom Is Sharing Some Of The Controversial Parenting Rules That She Has
Being a parent isn’t easy. In fact, it’s one of the most demanding jobs in the world. With such a large range of cultures, personalities, and beliefs out there, each family’s techniques for raising their children can be vastly different.
Unfortunately, parents can also get critical when it comes to tactics they disagree with. This mom’s rules are bound to cause a heated debate among parents everywhere.
A mom named Casara (@CasaraNJuan) shared some of her most controversial parenting rules on TikTok.
Casara and her husband Juan have four kids together. In her video, she discusses five things they allow their kids to do.
The first on the list is that they allow people of the opposite gender to stay the night at their house. Casara explains the reasoning behind this decision is that some kids don’t have homes to go to, or they were kicked out by their parents.
She wants her home to be a place of refuge and safety for all kids. However, she is strict about the sleeping situation.
“No, we are not going to allow them to sleep in the bed together, but we will allow them to sleep in the same house,” said Casara.
Moving on to number two, Casara declares that if her kids ever need to take a mental health day off from school, she would be totally fine with it. All they need to do is ask.
“They don’t have to be sick, we don’t have to have something to do, we don’t have to have any of that for my kid to stay home,” said Casara.
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Third, Casara will never kick her kids out of the house when they reach a certain age or charge them any rent. When they’re ready to move out, they can do so at any time, even after the age of eighteen.
One TikTok user commented in agreement, “This!!! My mom took my now-husband in when his mother kicked him out right after high school.”
Furthermore, Casara lets her kids have social media. They are closely monitored until they are about eleven or twelve.
After that age, she believes her kids will know they can come to her for anything. She trusts her kids to be able to see the difference between right and wrong, and in order to receive trust, you must also give trust.
Lastly, her kids are allowed to wear whatever they want. So she is perfectly accepting of her kids wearing crop tops at an appropriate age.
“It’s their body, their style, their choice. Whatever they want to wear, they can wear,” said Casara.
Of course, she has discussed with them about dressing provocatively and issued warnings about predators, so they can be aware of the way they might be perceived. But the choice of what to wear is up to them, and only them!
@casaranjuan If your parents don’t parent this way it doesn’t make them any less of a parent they are just doing what they feel is best for you. Everyone’s situation is different #ChewTheVibes #parenting #parents #parentsoftiktok #parentingtips #parentinghacks #parenting101 #parentingstyle #moms #mom #momlife #momsoftiktok #dads #dad #dadsoftiktok #couples #couplesoftiktok #couplegoals #parentinggoals
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