She Found Out Right Before Going On A Date With A Guy That He Was Actually Married
Navigating today’s dating world is hard. You have dating apps, meeting people at bars, people contacting you on social media to see if you want to go out, etc. It’s hard enough navigating the single people in the dating pool without the married people posing as singles.
One woman on TikTok named Dynah, who goes by @itsdynah, found out that the guy she was going on a date with wasn’t telling her the truth about who he was.
“You guys need to trust your gut. Let me tell you, I was about to go on a date right now, shoes on, ready to go on the date. And I ask this guy, ‘Hey can you call me, so we can solidify the details…” she said.
She apparently didn’t recognize the number he was using as his. She asked him about it, and he was like, ‘I don’t know that person.’
Apparently, the was enough of a shift in his tone of voice for her to take notice and look the number/caller ID up on Google. The information she found did not fit the guy that had asked her out.
This guy had been pursuing her for two years, according to one of the responses she made to a commenter on her original posting. So there wasn’t the shield of a dating app to cover anything about him.
He seemed to have left out one very important detail about his life while he and this girl were talking. What is that detail? He’s married and possibly has a kid.
“I googled him (the phone number). They’re coworkers. He’s married. I found their wedding pictures. And I’m pretty sure he has a kid,” she explained.
You would think that once someone was found out to be lying, they wouldn’t continue to stick with the story they came up with, right?
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This guy began to gaslight her and tried to make her feel guilty for what he had done. So she did the smart thing.
“I sent him the additional proof. That they were coworkers and that he had lied to me about not knowing who that person was,” she continued.
So she did the right thing and didn’t go on the date. And she advised people to trust their gut feelings about stuff like this.
Now in her comments, a lot of people suggested that she blast the guy on social media and expose him for the person he is. Her response to that was to remind the commenters that there is a child potential involved in the situation and that she couldn’t do that to a child on social media.
Many other commenters told her that she should try to contact the wife of the guy and send her screenshots of all the conversations between her and the guy. Some even suggested that she try and find the wife online. To which she responded, “Can’t find her online. They both don’t have social media.”
Having been in the dating pool, it was always a concern of mine whether or not the guy was being completely truthful about his life details. Now, I never dealt with what she has dealt with, but it was always something I was worried about when I double-checked the guy’s information.
It shouldn’t be like this still, but women have to be extra cautious when talking to guys. Our personal safety and bodily autonomy should never come after the guy’s needs. She did the right thing trusting her gut.
If this had happened to you, how would you have reacted?
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