She Thought She Really Hit It Off With A Guy, But After A Few Weeks, She Didn’t Think He Was Interested Anymore And She Confronted Him
Too many women have experiences with guys who seem super sweet and devoted in the beginning but become bland and apathetic over time.
One minute, he’ll be sending you a “Good morning” text each morning without fail, then all of a sudden, it’s like you’d be lucky to get more than a one-word response from him. Sound familiar?
One woman named Taylor Ferrin (@taylorferrin) went through this exact same situation. She thought she really hit it off with a guy at first, but as he slowly seemed to become less and less interested, she confronted him about it.
She warns users on TikTok to always set boundaries, especially before getting back into the dating world.
Through a series of text messages that she had taken screenshots of, Taylor relays how exactly she confronted the guy about his lack of interest.
Her text read: “I did feel like you were giving me different energy.”
His response was one of cluelessness: “I’m not sure how I was giving different energy.”
Taylor then goes on to display before and after examples of the difference in energy. The text messages she had first received from the guy went something like this:
“Good morning, sunshine!!”
Diego Cervo – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
“Just too excited to see you. Like a little kid the night before Christmas.”
“On my way over to cuddle you.”
Many of his messages included emojis and multiple exclamation points exhibiting his excitement towards interacting with her.
Then, within a span of three weeks, things went downhill. His messages to Taylor became cold and short. She received nothing more than a simple “alright” or “I’m working.”
Taylor revealed that when his energy shifted, she attempted to have a conversation with him to find out whether or not something was going on so they could get on the same page.
Communication is key, right?! According to Taylor, however, he did not care to discuss the matter at all.
Taylor believes that if men are no longer interested, they should be direct about it.
“Here’s the thing. I don’t need you to like me, but don’t (fool) me,” said Taylor.
@_tayloreades_ Bonus points if you can guess what letter his name started with ? #dating #datinglife #datingtok #datingtips #datingadvice #booktok #fitcheck
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