She’s Been With Her Boyfriend For A Decade, And He Recently Told Her That He Has A Baby With Another Woman That He Wants To Live With
This 30-year-old woman has a boyfriend the same age as her, and they have been together for a decade.
She split from her boyfriend a bit less than 2 years ago, and before they broke up, they lived in a house that his mom and dad owned.
As soon as they did break up, her boyfriend moved to a totally different state, and she remained in their home with their dog.
“Although we were broken up, we would still have regular conversations on a weekly basis,” she explained.
“My thought was maybe I would give him this time and space since really we were each other’s first real relationship and that he would come back around. His mom even thought he would come back (spoiler, he does).”
“When he would come back to visit, he would live at our place, and I would do regular chores and cook for him, etc. Every time he would leave to go back to his state, he would cry.”
During Christmas of 2022, he arrived back at their house to announce that he actually has a baby with another woman.
That news absolutely broke her heart, and she ended up crying. She asked her boyfriend why he had not said anything to her sooner, but he brushed it off as being too difficult to tell her.
He was aware that he was in the wrong for keeping such a secret from her, and she thought he should have spoken up sooner. Not even his family knew about the baby at that point.
Andrey Kiselev – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
“To this day, I don’t understand why he didn’t tell anyone until after the baby was born,” she said. “He tells me he wants to be with me, and I know all of you will tell me to leave.”
“I’m still contemplating because he’s been my person for so long, so I feel like I’d be able to work through all the (stuff). It’s just hard because I feel like there are so many variables that come into play.”
A couple of weeks ago, she and her boyfriend decided to spend time with one another so they could work through things.
When she told her sister about this, her sister made her tell their mom. This resulted in her moving home to be with her family, and they really still think that she is broken up with her boyfriend (she is not).
Her family fully anticipates that she will find someone new, especially since they hate her boyfriend, but she doesn’t want to do that. She really wants to keep working on the relationship she has with her boyfriend.
“Right now, my BF and the baby mama are living together until their lease ends in September and taking care of the baby that will soon be #1,” she continued.
“I’ve told him that if he wants to be with me, he has to co-parent and live separately from the baby mama.”
“He thinks that will mess up the kid’s life and that he thinks he should be with the baby and baby mama until the baby can understand why daddy is not living at home.”
“That doesn’t make any sense to me. Even if the relationship won’t be a romantic one and just one that focuses on being parents, I think it would mess the baby up more if he remembers daddy living with mommy and then not rather than daddy and mommy living in separate homes from the beginning. He also states that money is an issue as well. But at this point, he’s giving me nothing to work with.”
Her mom and sister can’t understand why she’s still buying into anything that he tells her, and they believe that she needs to pay attention to his actions and not his words.
“On another note, the baby mama, I think, is a gold digger,” she added. “Why would you have a baby with a person you’ve only known for 3-4 months that was hung up on an ex?”
“Not to fault, just her I think all parties are dum…including myself, but I can’t seem to trust her. Mind you, it’s not my BF but my BF’s family’s money.”
Do you think she should move on from her boyfriend for good over this?
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