Some People Are Upset That She Proposed To Her Boyfriend, Instead Of Waiting For Him To Propose To Her

Yakobchuk Olena - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual people
Yakobchuk Olena - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual people

A woman shared her proposal video on TikTok, and some online haters tore her apart for it. Sukhmin Garcha (@sukhmingarcha) subverted gender roles by proposing to her partner this past summer on a beach.

Sukhmin was excited to present her happy news to the world. In the video, her husband-to-be, Shiraz Brar, looks delighted and touched that she got down on one knee and proposed to him.

However, many people online were less than pleased. Funnily enough, most of the hate comments were written by women.

Some questioned Shiraz’s happiness in the video, while others doubted that he wanted her to propose at all. On the other hand, Sukhmin received a lot of support from men.

“I wish more reverse proposals existed! I love to see women proposing,” said one user.

“Let’s disrupt the system a bit. I know any man would appreciate and enjoy this,” said another.

After the video went viral, Sukhmin explained in a comment that the couple had already decided to get engaged. Plus, her fiancé had planned their proposal months ago. So she ‘just wanted to make a nice gesture.’

In response to the gesture, he commented under her video.

“Most amazing woman ever. Get you a strong woman that knows how to break barriers,” Sukhmin’s now-fiancé replied.

Yakobchuk Olena – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual people

Sukhmin and her boyfriend met two years ago. He had planned their proposal for July 5th, but sadly, one of Sukhmin’s family members passed away in June.

Because of this, they were not able to do the proposal. So instead, they postponed it to August.

They also had a formal engagement date booked for September 14th but ended up canceling it.

“I hope our generation can build a better society for the future generations to come,” said Sukhmin regarding gender roles.

Although there are still some people who spew unnecessary hate, it’s nice to see attitudes shifting when it comes to who should propose.

Hopefully, women will feel empowered by Sukhmin’s story to break free from traditional relationship norms, and women proposing will become normalized in later years. So, if you want to propose, go for it!

https://www.tiktok.com/@sukhmingarcha/video/7150386225373842693

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