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Apparently, her father-in-law had seen the caterers taking food away from the buffet table, but he thought they were just moving the food and didn’t know they were taking it home with them.
Realizing that people who she thought were her best friends did something like that was very upsetting.
“I felt devastated and betrayed. I felt like they took advantage of the situation by taking food home without my knowledge. I never expected anything like this to happen as they are very nice and generous with us whenever we hang out,” she said.
Then, she asked other friends who had attended the wedding if she was in the wrong for being upset that the caterers took leftovers home without her permission.
Her friends said that they’d even seen the caterers taking boxes of wine and beers to their van, and they asked her how many leftover drinks she had.
She and her fiancé hadn’t yet done an inventory of the drinks, but they’d spent over $2,000 on drinks for the wedding and barely had any during the reception.
Also, one of her friends added that at the wedding, he didn’t think to ask her about the caterers taking food and drinks home for themselves because he assumed she’d already given them permission to do so.
She was understandably upset that her friends catering her wedding didn’t ask before taking her leftover food and drinks home.
“I would have been okay if they had asked me, but they did this all behind my back,” she continued.
Sadly, she doesn’t have many friends, and she isn’t originally from Finland. Her caterer friends happened to be from the same Southeast Asian country, but despite having that in common, she’s unsure whether to continue the friendship.
While she isn’t a confrontational person, her now-husband has suggested that they both talk to her best friends to get more of their side of the story.
