His Wife Admitted To Being Interested In His Childhood Friend And Now Wants To Open Up Their Marriage
This 32-year-old guy has been with his wife, who is 35, for 10 years. They tied the knot about eight years ago and have since welcomed two kids into the world together.
He claims that his wife is the love of his life, and he could not imagine himself being with a different partner.
However, his wife’s recent behavior suggests that she might not feel the same way.
It all began about three years into their marriage when his wife started to become attracted to characters in different shows and movies that they watched every week. Apparently, she was specifically drawn to Asian characters.
At first, he tried to brush his wife’s remarks off as jokes. But then, about a month ago, he realized that his wife was serious after they began watching Chicago Med.
All of a sudden, she kept making remarks about wanting one of the characters, Dr. Choi, to be her physician so things could get steamy in the exam room.
Still, he tried to laugh it off. But that was until his wife insisted that they stop watching Chicago Med completely once the character entered a relationship with another doctor.
“Thinking about it now, throughout our entire relationship, Asian men always caught her attention. For the past few years, she’s been obsessed with popular K-pop members, joking how she would rather be with Eric Mun and Jimin,” he recalled.
His wife even went so far as to say that she was disappointed about getting stuck with him, a white man, since their babies were not as cute.
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One of his male childhood friends also happens to be Korean, and the guy visits their home often. That’s why his friend and his wife have since become friends. However, he realized that his wife actually acted pretty weird around the guy.
Still, he did not read too much into their friendship until just two days ago. It all began when he was cleaning up dinner while his wife put their children to bed.
Then, she asked him to sit down and have an important discussion.
At first, he was hesitant. But he wound up agreeing to hear his wife out, and she started by claiming that she didn’t think their physical relationship was as fulfilling as it used to be.
“I was taken aback and asked what I could do to bring her more fulfillment,” he said.
Yet, to his shock, his wife just suggested that they bring a third person into their relationship!
He immediately knew that his wife had someone in mind before making that request, even if she tried to deny it. So, they went back and forth for about an hour until his wife finally admitted to thinking about his childhood friend.
Afterward, she actually suggested that she become intimate with his friend while he just sits there and watches!
“I was stunned, and I told her I didn’t want to discuss this anymore. Then, I slept in the living room,” he explained.
The following morning, his wife left to take the kids to school and went to help out her sister. So, they have not spoken since the discussion, and he has no idea what to do.
He really does not want to see his wife after finding out about her infatuation with his childhood friend.
“And I think I want a divorce as she’s clearly no longer the woman I fell in love with, and I suspect she has already acted upon her urges with him,” he vented.
Still, he’s not sure whether his response is justified or if he’s overreacting to his wife’s fantasies.
How would you feel in his shoes? Does it sound like his wife is just using lack of fulfillment as an excuse to hook up with his childhood friend? Do you think divorce would be too extreme of a response or not?
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