Her Boyfriend Wants Her To Let His Friends Stay At Her House When They Visit, But The Friends Want Complete Privacy, So She’d Be Forced To Leave For A Week
This 30-year-old woman lives in the downtown area of her city, and her place is very close to where she both goes to school full-time and works. Her walk to school only takes about five minutes; meanwhile, she can get to work within 10 minutes.
She does live alone, but she has three dogs– which are visited by a dog walker every day due to her busy schedule. She also has a 35-year-old boyfriend, who lives about an hour away from her in the suburbs.
Now, her boyfriend apparently has two friends– named Jack and Liz– who want to visit with their four children, whose ages range from 5 to 10-years-old. It’s crucial to note that she’s never even met Jack or Liz before since they’re her boyfriend’s friends.
However, since her boyfriend lost both of his parents at a young age, he views his friends as family.
There is still one major problem with the plan, though. When Jack and Liz visit, they want to stay at her house.
More specifically, they don’t even want her to be there; instead, they actually want her to leave so they can stay at her home with complete privacy!
It’s not like Jack and Liz don’t know anyone else in the city, either. In fact, they are originally from where she lives, so she knows that Jack and Liz have parents and other family members who still live there.
Not to mention, the couple is quite wealthy, and she only knows that because Jack and Liz constantly talk to her boyfriend about their finances.
“Liz is a stay-at-home mom and has never worked before because Jack has had multiple inheritances from deceased family members, and he brags about his high-paying job,” she explained.
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“They also own about 10 rental properties that they collect passive income from. I believe they bought these houses with the inheritances.”
The fact that Jack and Liz could easily afford to rent their own place during the visit isn’t the only reason why she doesn’t want to hand over her house keys, either.
First of all, her commute to work and school each day takes over an hour each way if she travels from her boyfriend’s house in the suburbs.
And her days are already so long that the thought of upping her commute by two-plus hours each day is giving her immense anxiety.
On top of that, she won’t have anyone to walk or care for her dogs if she stays at her boyfriend’s house.
While she could theoretically hire a different dog walker, her boyfriend doesn’t want a stranger going into his house.
“Finally, it would just be really uncomfortable to have to leave my own home, and I am also nervous about having young children running around my house when I am not there, and my home is not child-proofed,” she added.
Yet, after telling her boyfriend about her concerns, he was not very understanding. Instead, he was just disappointed in her for not “opening up her home” to his close friends. He even claimed that she was making a bad impression on them already.
Her boyfriend also believes that she has already decided she doesn’t like Jack and Liz based on things she’s heard about them.
For instance, they are always asking to use her streaming service logins but constantly log her out. Plus, she found out that when the couple’s dogs get too old, they just abandon them at shelters and buy new puppies!
She didn’t deny that these things really bothered and upset her, either. Nonetheless, that’s not the root of the issue in her mind.
“I think that even if it were my own friends making this housing request of me, I would tell them to get a hotel or stay at their parent’s houses,” she vented.
Still, with her boyfriend angry at her, she’s now not sure whether refusing to let his friends stay at her house is really the wrong thing to do.
Would you ever ask to stay at someone’s home with your entire family and kick them out in the process? Does she have a right to feel uncomfortable with the plan? What would you do in this situation?
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