Her Husband Has Been Working Out With Another Woman Before Work Behind Her Back And Refuses To Stop Or Talk About The Issue

This 38-year-old woman has been married to her husband, who is 43, for four years. Since tying the knot, they’ve also had two kids. Their eldest is in preschool; meanwhile, their youngest is just 1-year-old.
Yet, on Father’s Day, she came to a shocking realization: he’s been working out, behind her back, with another woman at the gym.
It all began when, that morning, she noticed that her husband had been texting someone and smiling at his phone. He practically ignored her or simply didn’t notice when she invited him to eat breakfast at the table.
That was when she walked closer to get her husband to notice her and realized that he had been messaging a woman she didn’t know.
All she asked at the time was, “Who is that?” mainly because her mom had been in town visiting that day.
However, she did bring up his phone conversation later.
“I said I didn’t know making friends of the opposite gender and not saying anything was okay for us,” she recalled.
Her husband didn’t volunteer any information about his relationship with the other woman. So, she was forced to press him, and he eventually admitted to working out with the woman pretty often.
In fact, they would work out together for about two or three hours before work on three or four days of the week!

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Her husband also admitted that he didn’t tell her about the other woman because he knew she would be furious. Plus, he claimed that he would continue exercising with whoever he wanted.
Anyway, this was two months ago, and they’ve had many one-sided and vulnerable conversations ever since.
Still, it hasn’t gone anywhere, and she’s continued feeling sick to her stomach and having trouble sleeping.
So, more recently, she finally laid down the law. She didn’t give him an ultimatum; she just told her husband exactly how she was feeling.
“I simply told him I couldn’t sleep, that I felt heartbroken and constantly concerned. That if I was doing the same, he’d feel awful,” she explained.
“And crickets. I asked how long it was going to last and was met with, ‘There’s no signup sheet in the gym.'”
This pushed her to tell her husband that she just couldn’t imagine continuing their marriage if she constantly felt like this. Then, she asked to hear how her husband truly felt in his own words.
He apparently said that he felt the same and claimed that he loved her as his wife.
Nonetheless, her boundary has remained unacknowledged and disrespected.
She doesn’t think her husband has gotten physical with his workout buddy, and she’s not necessarily worried about that, either.
“It’s that he won’t budge or say anything knowing I’m hurting,” she vented.
“I feel like I’m getting more heartbroken daily, and the impulse to check his phone is hard to resist at times.”
So now, while she really doesn’t want to leave her husband, she doesn’t think she can keep going in their marriage without him acknowledging this issue.
How would you feel if your husband started working out with another woman behind your back? Why do you think he refuses to deal with this issue? Would you be able to stay with your partner after this?
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