She Broke Up With Her Boyfriend And Kicked Him Out After He Said He Wants To Only Spend His Money On Himself

BullRun - stock.adobe.com-  illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
BullRun - stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

This 21-year-old woman just broke up with her boyfriend, also 21. She and her boyfriend started dating not long after she’d gotten out of a bad relationship that she described as “toxic.”

Apparently, her boyfriend was homeless when she started dating him, but he hadn’t told her this. Then, he was arrested and briefly spent some time in jail.

“I felt the need to ‘save him’ (subconsciously), so I moved him into my mom’s house. We’d only been together for a couple of months up until that point, off and on,” she said.

“Our moving in together basically forced a committed relationship on us. I had never lived with any boyfriends.”

Later on, she took over the lease on an apartment that some of her family members had previously lived in, and her boyfriend moved into the apartment with her.

Issues in their relationship began when her boyfriend didn’t want her to see her closest friend of six years.

Usually, after a lot of fighting back and forth, he relented and allowed her to hang out with her friend, but he would set limitations like asking her to be home from her hangout before he got home.

That wasn’t the only way her boyfriend tried to control her social life.

“I can’t go out. I just turned 21. I haven’t even been to a bar! He convinced me he could take over the month’s rent so I could pursue school full-time, so I quit my job. Ever since then, he’s been using everything against me. I’ve had enough,” she continued.

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The last straw for her was when her boyfriend told her that he would prefer to spend his money only on himself.

He added that he didn’t want to have to work more hours in order to help provide more for their life together and for the apartment. He also insinuated that he didn’t want to have to buy things for her.

“I never asked for anything. I have my mom, who I can count on. I don’t ask people for things. So, I broke up with him and kicked him out,” she shared.

After her boyfriend left, she wasn’t sure where he had gone. She knew he didn’t have many options or people to reach out to besides his mother, who has a house where he may be able to stay temporarily.

Over the course of their relationship, she had attempted to break up with her boyfriend before. However, her boyfriend often made threats against her in retaliation, so out of fear, she stayed in the relationship. This time, though, she wanted to stand up for herself and not back down.

Do you think she did the right thing by breaking up with her boyfriend and kicking him out?

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