She Ghosted Her Friend For Two Months Because After She Lost Her Baby, Her Friend Showed Up To Console Her With A Guy
This 23-year-old woman’s best friend, who is also 23, has been dating the same guy for over two years.
But, once her friend got into that relationship, her friend barely reached out to her anymore. Plus, when they did finally hang out, her friend’s boyfriend was always there, too.
“My friend does this with every relationship,” she admitted.
“It’s not something I’m not used to at this point. I just got accustomed and hung out with both to avoid an issue.”
Back in June, though, she was devastated after suffering a miscarriage. Both she and her boyfriend were beside themselves, and she felt it was the ideal time to have her best friend by her side for support.
So, the day after the miscarriage, she and her boyfriend were at home crying when they received a knock at their front door.
The peephole was covered at the time, which is why they weren’t sure who it was. This pushed her boyfriend to ask who was there, and her best friend spoke up.
“I have no problem with my friend coming to console me,” she said.
What she didn’t know, however, was that her friend was with her boyfriend.
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Now, she and her own boyfriend are not close to the guy whatsoever. Sure, they had met him before, and they thought he was cool.
But, she and her boyfriend do not consider the guy to be a friend at all.
So, the fact that her friend brought the guy seriously upset her. After all, she was having a really vulnerable moment, and she did not want him there during it.
“I just wanted my friend to be there for me alone for once!” she explained.
“I felt like I had to entertain him, and it’s not what I wanted to do.”
That’s why, after the unexpected visit, she actually ignored her friend for two months.
More recently, though, her friend finally reached out and asked for some clarification regarding the ghosting.
She was upfront and told her friend about how the visit upset her. However, her friend claimed to have brought the guy in order to console her own boyfriend.
Still, that just does not make any sense to her since her boyfriend is not close to him at all.
Anyway, her friend did end up apologizing for what happened.
“But my friend doesn’t want to continue our friendship, and I’m not sure I want to, either,” she vented.
In the wake of their falling out, though, she’s been left wondering whether calling her friend out for bringing the guy along was justified or not.
If you experienced a similar loss, would you want a guy there who you didn’t even consider a friend? Can you understand why she just wanted her best friend to be there for her? Do you think she had a right to ghost her friend after this?
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