She Wants To Tell Her Ex-Husband That He’s No Longer Allowed To See Their Dog
This 26-year-old woman and her ex-husband have been separated for nearly a year and a half. They were married for four years, and the entirety of their relationship was unhealthy.
Now that she isn’t with him anymore, she has realized that they never should have been together or gotten married.
She acknowledged that entering into a marriage when she was 22, and he was 26 was such a young age to make a huge decision like that.
Their breakup was rough and filled with drama for well over a year.
But not long after the separation, which she initiated, she met her current boyfriend, and their relationship has been fantastic so far. She noticed that it was essentially the exact opposite of how things were with her ex-husband, and she felt better than ever.
Four years ago, not long before she married her ex, she bought a dog, who is her best friend, who she adores.
“Since my separation, there have been a few times where my ex has dog-sat, mostly because he requests to see her. So, I’d drop her off for the weekend or sometimes a week,” she said.
She’s done this fewer than 12 times, and she has tried to remain empathetic to how painful a breakup can be. She understands that her ex loves the dog and would enjoy spending time with the dog once in a while. So far, she’s allowed him to do so.
Now, she is two and a half months pregnant. Even though she has been willing to bring her dog over to her ex’s, she hasn’t spent time directly with him in ages.
Pixel-Shot – stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual dog
“When I say this man gives me extreme anxiety, I am not being dramatic. Even the thought of running into him in the grocery store is enough to give me a minor panic attack,” she explained.
Throughout the separation, her anxious thoughts have improved with time. Limiting the amount of time she sees him has helped as well.
Several weeks ago, she had to be in the same room as her ex when they signed the final divorce agreement, and she felt nauseated and was shaking in fear prior to seeing him.
Unfortunately, her ex isn’t emotionally well, and she’s terrified that he’ll go down a dark path once he learns of her pregnancy.
Due to all of this, she’s considering no longer allowing her ex-husband to spend time with her dog.
“I paid to get the dog; I pay for all her food, toys, nail trims, and vet bills,” she shared.
Even when they were married, her ex didn’t pay for anything for her dog besides food. However, throughout their relationship, she was the one making the higher salary, so she always financially contributed the most to take care of her dog.
What would you do if you were in her shoes?
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