She’s Felt Continuously Disrespected By Her Future In-Laws Ever Since Moving In With Her Fiancé, So She Cancelled The Bridal Shower They Were Planning For Her
This woman moved to another state and left behind her good job just to be with her fiancé. First, they bought a house together, and her fiancé lived in it by himself for a month. Then, she moved in with him to start their new life together.
But, she is not close to anyone in her new state, and she has been planning her wedding completely by herself because her fiancé works 13-hour days.
“I am constantly in a state of tears from the stress,” she said.
Not to mention, her in-laws have been really getting under her skin and being disrespectful ever since she relocated, too.
First, her fiancé’s mother set up her entire house without cleaning anything first– even though she explicitly asked her soon-to-be mother-in-law not to do anything.
Then, her fiancé’s aunt harvested her entire garden way too early after she asked the woman not to even go near her crops.
On top of that, her fiancé’s mom also killed all of her plants just because the woman “felt like watering them.” She never even asked her fiancé’s mom to help out with that.
So, just last night, one more incident with her fiancé’s “aunt” totally pushed her over the edge.
For context, the woman is not actually an aunt. She is just her mother-in-law’s best friend who has “latched on” to her fiancé’s family for decades.
Aliaksei Lasevich – stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Anyway, she received a text from the woman last night saying, “Hello! I need to know exactly who you want to be invited to the bridal shower on Saturday, September 30. I am in charge of invitations. Need the exact count today by midnight. Names and addresses. TODAY!”
Now, she had already sent all of this information to her future sister-in-law, who was supposed to be planning the shower.
Yet, when she tried to tell her fiancé’s aunt that, the woman claimed that her sister-in-law had “washed her hands” of the party.
It’s important to note that she never asked anyone to throw her the bridal shower. Instead, her in-laws took it upon themselves and said they were doing it “out of the kindness of their heart.”
So, she was genuinely moved and appreciative until last night, and she couldn’t believe how rude her fiancé’s aunt was being.
“And after feeling fully disrespected for the last four months, I kinda lost it,” she admitted.
She wound up responding to the text by saying that she had also “washed her hands” of the party. She told her fiancé’s aunt that she would be spending the weekend with people who respect her– because, from the text exchange, she “learned some new things.”
Finally, she told her fiancé’s aunt not to text her again.
Her own mother and aunt will be in town this weekend anyway, so she just plans to spend some time with them.
Nonetheless, ever since basically telling her fiancé’s aunt off, she has felt pretty bad.
“I could have just canceled the bridal shower without sending that text, but on the other side, I need to end the disrespect before I’m married to this man,” she vented.
Still, she’s not sure whether canceling the bridal shower over the woman’s rude text message was the right thing to do or not.
Do you think she did the right thing by trying to set a boundary before she tied the knot with her fiancé? Can you understand why she’s been so frustrated with her future in-laws? How would you have handled this situation?
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