She’s Losing Feelings For Her Boyfriend, Even Though He Tried To Impress Her By Cleaning And Doing Her Laundry
For the last decade, this 24-year-old woman and her boyfriend, 26, have been in an on-again, off-again relationship.
They also have a 1-year-old son together.
Throughout the earlier years of their time dating, her boyfriend didn’t know what he wanted in the future, and at this point, they were both quite young, so it made sense that they didn’t have everything figured out.
“But over the years, I’ve found him talking to other girls, and I think it’s caused some resentment on my end,” she said.
Not long ago, her boyfriend told her that he wasn’t happy in the relationship anymore, and he broke up with her and moved out of the place they shared together.
Understandably, she was really upset that their relationship was over, but she discovered soon after her boyfriend left that she felt better on her own.
“After we broke up, but before he moved out, we had a little party with some of his friends, where I found out he was ‘flirting’ with a girl we’d both hung out with a month before, and I had also been flirting with someone I had met online,” she explained.
Since they were no longer dating, neither of them was upset to learn that the other person was flirting with someone else.
Several weeks later, she learned that her boyfriend had hooked up with the woman he’d been flirting with at the party, as well as two other women, within not even two months of their breakup.
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Then, after a few weeks, her boyfriend reached out and said he wanted to get back into a relationship with her.
“At that point, I felt like I had lost all feelings for him. I’ve also developed some feelings for this other man I met online, and he’s made me feel guilty for that,” she shared.
Her boyfriend tried to improve his behavior and impress her by coming over to do her laundry and cleaning. However, she doesn’t believe that this is enough to undo the terrible ways he has treated her over the years.
Even though she knows that she probably should break up with her boyfriend for good, she’s concerned that her boyfriend’s mental health will suffer since he’s struggled a lot in the past and only started seeing a psychiatrist because she urged him to do so. So, she’s worried that he won’t go to appointments anymore if she breaks up with him and isn’t around to encourage him to keep seeing his psychiatrist.
Plus, she would be heartbroken if she had to explain to her son why his father doesn’t live with them anymore and why he doesn’t see him as often.
What would you do if you were in her shoes?
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