Two Months After Going On A Date With A Guy, He Asked Her To Pay Him For Half of Their First Date, Since Things Between Them Never Went Anywhere
This woman met a guy on a dating app a couple of months ago, and she went out on a first date with him in July.
They met up at a restaurant, had a delicious meal, and wound up talking for three entire hours.
When their date was coming to an end, and the check came, he paid for her food, and she offered to pay for their next date.
“We said our goodbyes, and after an incredibly awkward kiss goodbye, we parted ways,” she explained.
“After the date, when we got home, he sent a voice message saying he had a great time and had some ideas for our next date. I was like great, this is awesome I can’t wait to do it sounds mint.”
“The next week, we messaged/Snapchatted daily, and we’re planning on doing the next date the week after. Until I had a work commitment come up and had to cancel the week of.”
In the weeks that followed her canceling their second date, she got overwhelmingly busy with college assignments.
She also had to pick up additional shifts at work to fund some repairs that her car needed. Because she had so much on her plate, she wasn’t messaging this guy as much as she had been before.
He eventually questioned her if she was still interested, and he also wanted to know why she had been a bit distant.
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She clued him in on what she was dealing with and reassured him that she still was quite interested in him, but she was insanely preoccupied with other things in her life.
It wasn’t that she was trying to avoid him; she had so much going on that she wasn’t replying to anyone in her life, let alone keeping up with them. A week after she had this conversation with him, he messaged her, wanting to know if she was at a local hardware and garden store since he thought he saw her there.
This message honestly creeped her out. Then, fast forward to this month, she still had not found time to go on a second date with him. She also pretty much lost interest, as she doubted he would be a great match for her, but she kept sending him messages on occasion.
He did ask her to come to his house, but she said no because she wasn’t interested in only hooking up with him.
The next message she got from him was him inquiring if she was at a department store, but she wasn’t there at all, and she didn’t like the vibe he was giving off by asking her several times if she was out and about in different stores.
“Then, out of nowhere, he snaps me a message saying here’s my bank details you owe me for your half of the date,” she said.
“2 MONTHS LATER, this man wants a refund on our date because it didn’t go any further. He sent that a week ago, and I just didn’t respond, I don’t think I should pay him back because we went on a date, and he offered to pay. So now it hasn’t gone to plan, it’s not fair for me to pay him back.”
Do you think she owes him?
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