He Left His Pregnant Girlfriend Because After He Refused To Propose While They Were Having Issues In Their Relationship, She Downloaded Dating Apps And Wouldn’t Admit It Was Wrong
Recently, this man ended his relationship with his pregnant girlfriend. When he broke up with her, she was three months into her pregnancy.
Leading up to the breakup, he and his girlfriend were fighting all the time. The arguments often related to finances, as well as minor issues they had with one another.
“After a big argument, she had asked me if I was going to marry her. I told her I wasn’t going to propose while we were having so many issues because I didn’t want our marriage to seem like a band-aid for our relationship,” he said.
In his opinion, they should focus on resolving their issues before they could think about getting engaged.
Once he had said that, his girlfriend interpreted his statement to mean that he never wanted to marry her at all.
So, she decided to download dating apps and start talking to other men without his knowledge.
“I ended up catching her talking to some guy on the apps and confronted her about it. She openly admitted she was looking for someone else to spend her life with,” he explained.
From there, they had yet another fight.
Several days later, his girlfriend told him that she was sorry for her actions. She claimed it was a stupid decision on her part, and she promised she was done talking to men on dating apps.
Olesya Pogosskaya – stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
In turn, he told his girlfriend he was sorry that his words made her think he meant that he never wanted to get married to her in the future, clarifying that he had only been talking about the idea of marriage within the near future.
Unfortunately, the cycle repeated only a week later when he caught his girlfriend in the act of talking to another man on a dating app.
Understandably, this was the last straw for him.
He broke up with her with the stipulation that he would be willing to get back together with her if her behavior improved and if she could prove that she was no longer going to talk to other men on dating apps.
“I felt what she was doing was cheating. She refused to admit what she did was wrong, and to this day says it doesn’t matter what she did,” he shared.
According to his girlfriend, there never should have been a circumstance in which he broke up with her while she was pregnant. She told him that he should have “‘manned up,'” coped with the situation, and remained in the relationship.
During the conversation, he made it clear that he wanted to be present in their child’s life, and he told his girlfriend that he would co-parent with her even if her behavior didn’t get better.
Despite acknowledging that he maybe could have dealt with the problem in a more productive way, he thinks it was fair for him to end the relationship.
What would you have done if you were in his shoes?
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