She Went On A Date With A Guy Who Told Her That He Didn’t Like Her Outfit Before Proceeding To Explain How She Should Be Dressing

Emily Chan |

Oct 6, 2023

Mariia Korneeva - stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

A first date is no place for controlling behavior. When a guy is already displaying controlling behavior on the first date, it’s best to avoid any further involvement with him.

TikToker Holly Auna (@hollyauna) is talking about her first and only date with a guy who told her that he didn’t like her outfit and then proceeded to explain how she should be dressing.

So she went on a date with this guy to the mall. As they were walking around the mall, the first thing he said was that he hated when girls wore ripped jeans.

Holly had worn a tie-dye tank top and really distressed jeans on their date. She had no idea how to respond to that comment.

Then, he took her to several stores to show her how he wanted her to dress. In her video, Holly shows off examples of outfits that he pointed out to her while on their date. It was obvious that he was super into the preppy style.

The first picture was of an all-pink outfit. The model in the photo wore a pink argyle sweater layered on top of a white button-up shirt and paired with a pale pink skirt.

The next ensemble consisted of a navy blue skirt with white polka dots, a green sweater draped over a blue and white striped button-up, and knee-high socks.

After that, they never spoke to each other again. In a comment, Holly clarified that there is nothing wrong with dressing preppy.

However, there is something very wrong with someone who tries to tell others what clothes they should wear, especially when their opinion is unsolicited.

Mariia Korneeva – stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

Several TikTok users questioned his motives behind wanting her to switch up her style and why he even agreed to go out with her in the first place since it was obvious she wasn’t his type.

“Why do people pick someone and then try to change them? Go for the girl/guy you really want,” pointed out one user.

“Did he think you were a doll?” chimed in another.

“So he wanted you to dress like Cher from Clueless??” asked someone else.

“He should’ve known better, a leopard doesn’t change its spots. If he wanted a girly girl he should’ve dated one, not try to change you,” commented a fourth.