He Broke Up With His Girlfriend Because He Found Out She Cheated In Her Previous Relationship And Still Hangs Out With Her Affair Partner To This Day
This 26-year-old man and his girlfriend, 25, have been in a relationship for a year.
Several weeks ago, the two of them got together with a group of her friends.
“We were playing a little quiz game and one of the questions that popped up involved cheating. I mentioned that I hate cheaters, and after that, I noticed one of the friends give my girlfriend a look,” he said.
During this, his girlfriend seemed a little uneasy. It was strange, and it made him wonder what was going on.
The following day, he questioned his girlfriend about what all of that was about.
“She said that she wasn’t going to lie and admitted that she cheated on her ex. This was a year before she met me,” he explained.
He was angry because this was the first time that she was telling him about it, but he asked for more details.
His girlfriend told him that once, she was intoxicated, and she hooked up with B, a friend of hers who used to be a friend with benefits.
To this day, his girlfriend and B are friends and hang out constantly.
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“I knew that my girlfriend and B had a history, and while I didn’t like that they hung out, I just dealt with it,” he shared.
Understandably, he was mad when he learned about his girlfriend’s past cheating.
It was bad enough that she cheated, but it was even worse that she is still good friends with the man she had an affair with.
After hearing this revelation, he told his girlfriend that he needed space to process and think through how he felt about it and what he wanted to do going forward.
Two days later, he broke up with his girlfriend.
He ended their relationship because he didn’t want to force her to stop hanging out with B.
Plus, he knew that since he already hadn’t been comfortable with his girlfriend’s friendship with B, now that he knew the entire truth of their dynamic, he wouldn’t be able to cope with her continuing the friendship.
Because of that, he realized that the best option was to take himself out of the equation and break up with his girlfriend.
What would you have done if you had been in his shoes?
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