She Knew Her Husband Was Cheating On Her When He Came Home With Makeup On His Face
This 27-year-old woman and her 28-year-old husband are pretty much living the American Dream.
They got married two years ago, have been together for 8 years in total, and own their own home. They have money in the bank, they have two cars, and they have three dogs.
But, one day recently, her husband came home with something on his wife. She went to wipe it off and realized it was makeup.
She questioned her husband about why he had makeup on his nose, and he said he wasn’t sure. Eventually, he claimed the makeup was from the dentist.
She thought that was the craziest excuse she had ever heard because the dentist never gets close enough to your face to transfer makeup onto you.
She told her husband as much, and he appeared to panic as he tripped over his words and wouldn’t look at her.
Her husband kept insisting that he was not lying, before saying she should check the cameras in their house or look at his phone, because he had nothing to hide.
She ended up dropping the topic, as her parents were on their way over to watch their dogs since she and her husband were supposed to head to California for a vacation.
When her parents got to their house, she acted normal while texting her brother to fill him in on the drama.
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Her brother just said she should go out to her husband’s truck and take the SD card out of his dashcam to see if he was hiding anything.
That’s exactly what she did, and her husband came out of the house at the exact moment she was extracting the SD card.
“I then calmly took him through my logical thinking of why I think he got makeup on his nose because he was making out with someone else,” she explained.
“I ended my explanation with, “We have been together 8 years and married for 2. I have built a life with you, and you have been my best friend this whole time. If you respect me as a person and love me as a person, you will tell me the truth.” That got him. He told me that he made out with one of his coworkers.”
She pressed her husband for all of the details, and he maintained that he had only been cheating for two weeks and that his affair partner knew he was married.
He cried and apologized to her before saying he loves her. She consoled him and said he made a bad choice, but she still loves him too.
Her husband broke her heart that day. She told him that although she would like to work through this, she’s always going to be worried about the cheating even if she does manage to forgive him.
Her husband promised to do anything to make their marriage work, but she informed him that she was still going on vacation to California and taking her mom with her instead of him.
She wanted to take two weeks apart to decide if she wants to attempt counseling. Well, while on her trip, her husband called her and said he needed to be honest with her.
Her husband admitted that he slept with his affair partner three times and that this has been going on for three months, not two weeks.
Her husband even confessed to sleeping with this other woman at a hotel while she was on a girls’ trip for a weekend.
After her husband spilled the beans, he begged her not to leave him and said he could change.
“I asked him to leave me alone, and he sent me a slew of texts outlining a reel of our relationship and how amazing I am,” she said.
“Included lyrics from our first dance wedding song. What a manipulative clown. If you don’t already know what I will do next, I will give you a hint. It starts with a D and ends with ivorce. Fin.”
“…My dad told me I’d go through a roller coaster of emotions. I’ve felt shocked, angry, [and] hurt, but what I am feeling the most right now is…loss. Loss of a potential future. Of a family. Of the last 8 years that were so formative in shaping me into who I am today.”
She did send her husband a text message to let him know that made her life a complete nightmare, and she’s in an incredible amount of pain, but that hardly takes it away.
What advice do you have for her?
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