She Told Her Boyfriend She’s Done With Their Relationship Since It’s Clear He’s Only With Her Because He Doesn’t Want To Be Alone
I hate when I see people stuck in relationships where they aren’t appreciated or receiving any affection from their partners.
One woman recently had to confront her boyfriend after he refused to show her any affection throughout their relationship.
She had been with her boyfriend for over three years. Throughout that time, she had done her best to tell him how she likes to show love, what she wants from a relationship, and what her love language is.
“I guess he never got the memo,” she said.
“For clarification, how he loved me wasn’t ‘wrong,’ but it didn’t feel right. I had to ask for hugs and kisses, to be held and asked for him to hold a conversation with me. All things I think you should naturally wanna do. Every time I would hug him, he would push me off of him. Every time I kissed him too much, he would tell me that I stressed him out.”
Unfortunately, she wasn’t only having problems with her boyfriend’s physical affection, but how he spoke to her too. Anytime she tried to sit down and talk with him, he’d tell her he had nothing to talk about.
As she gave up on expecting hugs, kisses, or any love-dovey affection, she noticed that his ‘love language’ was bullying her and picking on her, sometimes to the point where she’d cry.
She couldn’t stand the way he treated her anymore and decided to confront him about it.
“I asked him to tell me why he loves me, and he couldn’t answer; he just got angry that I asked,” she recalled.’
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“He said I’m always ruining moments by asking these types of questions. The reason I asked him was because I felt like we were in an intimate moment, but the moment was gone, and I felt so wrong for asking.”
Getting frustrated, she told her boyfriend she believed the only reason he was with her was because he didn’t want to be alone. She told him he must not want her but only wants the things she does for him.
After her boyfriend didn’t say anything to make her think any differently about him, she told him she was done fighting for their relationship while he refused to fight for her and went to bed in silence.
The next morning, after she had left for work, her boyfriend asked if he could cook her dinner when she got home so they could talk things out.
After all that, she was left wondering if she had done something wrong by saying those things to him.
Should she feel bad, or are her concerns and complaints valid?
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