She’s Upset Because Her Boyfriend Keeps Confiding In His Female Friend About Their Relationship, And He Even Went Out To Dinner With The Girl And Lied About It
This 25-year-old woman’s boyfriend, 26, has a female friend.
She and her boyfriend have been in a relationship for the last decade.
About a year ago, her boyfriend was friends with a man who was in a relationship.
Her boyfriend, his friend, and his friend’s girlfriend would often get together, and she didn’t mind.
Several months ago, his friend’s relationship ended.
After his friend’s breakup, her boyfriend continued hanging out with his friend and his friend’s ex-girlfriend separately.
“This girl knows my boyfriend is not single. They talk about me in their messages,” she said.
Also, his friend’s ex-girlfriend has given him details about how she’s hooking up with someone.
It makes her uneasy that her boyfriend discloses their personal issues within their relationship to his friend’s ex-girlfriend.
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Plus, her boyfriend shares feelings with his friend’s ex that he won’t disclose to her.
When she confronted him about this and questioned why he told his friend’s ex all of this personal information, he explained that he wanted another person to be able to share his feelings with.
This left her feeling confused because she didn’t understand why she couldn’t be the person her boyfriend leaned on when he needed to vent.
“Is it this normal to confide in another girl about our relationship issues?” she wondered.
According to her boyfriend, all his male friends are unintelligent, so he doesn’t trust their opinions when he’s looking for advice, and she agrees with his assessment.
Her concerns were amplified when her boyfriend and his friend’s ex-girlfriend went to dinner together.
His friend’s ex reached out to him and asked him to dinner, suggesting that he ask his girlfriend to come with them.
“He said I was busy with work (which I was) but still could’ve asked and told me about this. That day, he lied and said he was going to a friend’s house, but he went to her house and then to dinner, and then she Ubered him back home,” she shared.
During their conversation about this, her boyfriend assured her that he and his friend’s ex didn’t do anything that she had to worry about.
She read their messages and believes that they back up her boyfriend’s assurances that nothing physical happened.
However, she’s understandably concerned that her boyfriend was deceitful and went behind her back to go to dinner with his friend’s ex. Her boyfriend lied to her because he knew she wouldn’t feel comfortable with the scenario.
She’s expressed her unease with this friendship between him and his friend’s ex numerous times, and now she doesn’t know how to move forward.
The reason why she doesn’t have trust in her boyfriend is because, in the past, he has been flirty and suggestive with other women on social media. He sent other women spicy photos and flirted with other women, but he never had an affair with anyone.
What would you do if you were in her shoes?
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