A Week Before Her Wedding, Her Fiancé Called It Off And Said He Was Too Nervous To Be “Trapped” In Marriage
Just one week before this 26-year-old woman was supposed to marry her 29-year-old fiancé, he called it all off and canceled their wedding.
Her fiancé admitted to her that he had been feeling super nervous for the last three months, so he finally made up his mind not to go through with the wedding at all.
This was all news to her, as she had no idea that he was having doubts about walking down the aisle.
“He said he feels like getting married would mean that he is “trapped” for the rest of his life,” she explained.
“He decided he wanted a short break, so I went to stay with my parents. Four days later he texted asking me if I could come home and that he misses me and loves me. He has arranged to see a psychologist/counselor.”
“Chiefly, he wants to figure out (i) why this happened; (ii) does he not want to marry at all or just not want to marry me; (iii) does he still want to have kids at all, or is it just that he doesn’t want to have kids with me.”
She feels completely blindsided still that her fiancé called off their wedding, as she has been with him for three and a half years, and he has always said to her that he wanted to have a family with her.
It’s like whiplash to hear her fiancé say that everything he previously said might actually no longer be the truth.
She’s seriously confused about how she should even feel about such a confusing and emotional situation.
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“What should I do next?” she wondered. “Should I continue living with him while he figures this out?”
“Should I go on a long holiday somewhere else while he figures this out? Should I just leave him for good once and for all?”
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