Chip Chick
This never was an issue to her, as her husband transferred money into their joint account, and while the transferred money helped some, it was never enough to help pay off a significant amount of their debt.
“Finally, one day, I noticed that my computer had saved his bank login info and logged in because things weren’t adding up, and I owed almost 30k on my credit line,” she explained.
“That’s when I realized that he wasn’t transferring his whole checks and had made varying transfers totaling over 60k over the past 3-4 years into an investment app.”
Her husband had been taking money and investing it into stocks, then losing it all. She approached him about this, and he promised that he would quit with his bad investments.
But, this past summer, she once more noticed a transfer that looked suspicious to her, so she confronted her husband and stated she would be leaving him.
However, they worked through that, and he has quit investing money. They are very slowly paying off their debt, and they are down from $60,000 to $20,000 already on what they owe.
In the meantime, she has been eyeing all of their accounts in an effort to make sure that her husband is sticking to his word.
She then found out that her husband was carrying on an emotional affair with one of his online friends while she was pregnant.
She discovered their messages, and her husband would tell this woman she was gorgeous and spend hours on the phone with her.
They also sent photos to one another and even planned to go on a weekend trip while she was close to giving birth.
“I broke down and cried about how much it hurt, how we didn’t have the money for the trip, how I had wanted to go somewhere with him for a baby moon,” she said.
