His Fiancée Cheated On Him During Her Bachelorette Party, Then Lied About It, But Her Sister Gave Him Video Evidence

Drobot Dean - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual people
Drobot Dean - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual people

It’s been nearly five years that this 26-year-old man has been with his 27-year-old fiancée. He admits they’re just like every normal couple; they have highs and lows in their relationship, but no matter what they go through, they’re always able to find a resolution and move on.

He also is very much in love with his fiancée, and the feelings are mutual on her end. Their wedding is coming up soon, and his fiancée recently went on a trip for her bachelorette party, along with her sisters and closest friends.

His fiancée clearly has been enjoying herself, and she’s sent him lots of photos of what she’s been up to.

She also has called him regularly and also texted him to check in. He’s happy that she’s having a good time, and he’s been giving her space to fully have fun.

Yesterday evening, his fiancée went out to a bar with her sisters and friends, and he fully anticipated that people would want to buy her drinks or hit on her.

Given the fact that it’s her bachelorette party and she’s absolutely gorgeous, he knew she would be getting a lot of attention. Also, her outfit was eye-catching too.

“Towards the end of the night she was in line for a bar or club and started talking to a girl in line who was very pretty,” he explained.

“She told my fiancé that she still hadn’t had her first kiss. The idea of getting her first kiss, I guess, sent her over the edge, and they kiss…”

“The girl gets embarrassed and backs up, but my fiancée is standing there, lost in the moment, almost wondering why she stopped.”

Drobot Dean – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual people

Well, right after that happened, his fiancée called him up, and she was saying sorry over and over again.

She claimed that she just pecked another girl on the lips, so she completely lied to him about what happened.

It was only after his fiancée’s sister sent him the video evidence of what happened that the truth of his fiancée’s cheating dawned on him.

He was so upset but tried to downplay the situation by reassuring himself that it could have been worse; it’s not like she made out with a guy.

His fiancée kept saying sorry to him for an hour on end and asking him to forgive her. While he wasn’t all in on the forgiveness, he told his fiancée he forgave her because he was worried about ruining the final day of her bachelorette party, and he also didn’t want to cause any drama with her sisters around.

“After thinking about it more, I realize that it doesn’t really matter that it was a girl,” he said. “She still cheated on me.”

“I feel so hurt and lost; she’s my best friend and, honestly, someone I would consider the most loyal and trustworthy person there is. I love her more than anyone. I feel broken thinking that wasn’t true. I don’t want to break up or call off the wedding, but I don’t know what to do. I feel completely depressed and don’t know what I’m supposed to say to her, what I’m supposed to do to move forward etc.”

“Just feels like I have to get over it and move on. She also really does seem remorseful, so I don’t really want to rub this in her face, but I can’t stop thinking about it. Even when I try to go play video games to distract myself, I end up thinking about that and not really playing.”

He has to pick his fiancée up from the airport tomorrow, and he’s trying to figure out how to handle this before then.

What advice do you have for him?

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