Bre Avery Zacharski
“She was so disgusted with him and so ashamed for even thinking about talking to him,” he said.
“And she told me she always thought he was a cringe and a creep, especially now that he dared to go text her boyfriend, me. A few months later, she came to me very emotional and told me that she lied about that period. It wasn’t just talking on the phone; they actually hung out together in the car and went to restaurants.”
“She told me she couldn’t tell me the full truth because she was disgusted with herself and because didn’t want to hurt me and didn’t know what to do. And that now she knows she was wrong for keeping it a secret and that her way of seeing things changed. We moved on.”
A couple of years ago, he proposed, and from that time until now, he would frequently question his fiancée about whether anything more had ever gone down with her friend, but she maintained that was not the case.
Since his fiancée was nothing but kind, loving, and wonderful, he decided to let things go. But then, last month, he couldn’t stop thinking that something more had gone on, and his fiancée finally caved.
She sobbed for hours and admitted that she had a physical affair with this guy. She claimed she only engaged with him for the attention and knew it was wrong of her.
“Of course, she kept explaining herself that she admittedly thought she was doing the right thing by not telling the whole truth so she doesn’t hurt me and that because she thought it was too bad to put into words to me because I was so good to her and she couldn’t break me,” he added.
“And that she adores and worships me too much that she was scared I’d leave her if she told me. Especially that it was over after 4 months, and she changed and became a better person after that.”
“I was obviously shocked, hurt, and disappointed at her and at myself for being delusional and investing my time, emotions, and money for years in someone who did this to me during my most difficult times. She’s always showed me that she was madly in love with me and that she’s desperate for me to marry her since the first day we’ve been together. So I’m shocked to know what she’s capable of doing to me. I feel like I don’t really know her.”
He informed his fiancée that he’s putting their wedding on hold. But honestly, he’s more inclined to dump her.
Their entire relationship has been based on trust, and he can’t ever trust her again. He’s also so upset that his fiancée was fine with marrying him and not telling him the truth about her cheating ways.
