A Guide To Everything You Owe Your Bridesmaids As A Bride
Being a bride is an exciting, whirlwind experience filled with love and joy. But, if we’re being honest, the process of planning a wedding can be downright stressful.
And one of the most significant decisions you will make during this time is choosing your bridesmaids. These important women in your life will stand by your side and support you during the planning process.
However, that doesn’t mean you don’t owe them anything in return.
Too often nowadays, bridesmaids are used and abused by “bridezillas” with outrageous expectations. So, here’s what being a considerate bride looks like and how you can ensure your bridesmaids feel valued.
Show Gratitude And Appreciation
Right off the bat, you need to realize that your bridesmaids are dedicating their time, energy, and resources to making your wedding day special. A heartfelt thank you will go a long way.
Throughout the planning process, be sure to express your gratitude often – both verbally and through small gestures.
A handwritten note or a thoughtful gift can make them feel recognized and appreciated for their efforts.
Be A Clear Communicator
Wedding photography – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual people
Communication is key in any relationship, and it’s especially crucial when planning a wedding. So, be sure to keep your bridesmaids in the loop about important dates, details, and changes.
Whether it’s about the dress fittings, rehearsal dates, or travel plans, make sure they have all the information they need well in advance. This will help them plan accordingly and avoid any last-minute surprises.
Take Finances Into Account
Weddings only get more expensive year after year – not just for the bride and groom, but also for the bridal party. That’s why you need to be mindful of the financial burden you might be placing on your bridesmaids.
When it comes to attire, choose dresses that are affordable. Or, offer to cover part of the cost.
And if you’re planning destination events like a bachelorette party, consider how much it will cost each bridesmaid and be flexible with those who might not be able to afford it.
Remember, friendship isn’t about money, so you should never sever ties with a bridesmaid just because they can’t afford something.
Respect Their Time
Also, keep in mind that your bridesmaids have their own lives, responsibilities, and commitments. You can respect their time by being organized and considerate of that.
For instance, you should schedule fittings and planning sessions at convenient times and be understanding if they can’t make it to every single event.
Yes, their role is to support you, but it’s not to be at your beck and call 24/7.
Be Inclusive
Each of your bridesmaids is a unique person with their own past experiences, preferences, and comfort levels. So, you should include them in decision-making processes where possible – especially when it comes to choosing their attire and duties.
Be sure to respect their boundaries and never pressure them into completing any tasks or activities that they just aren’t comfortable with.
Give Emotional Support
Planning a wedding can definitely be an emotional rollercoaster, and your bridesmaids are there to support you through the highs and lows. But this support should be a two-way street.
Strive to be there for them as they are for you, and show empathy or offer a listening ear if they need it.
Friendships don’t become one-sided just because someone is getting married.
Create A Memorable Experience
Last but not least, you should try to create a positive, memorable experience for all of your bridesmaids.
Celebrate their contributions and friendship, and plan fun, stress-free moments where you can all just bond and create memories together.
Whether it’s a spa day, a movie night, or simply a heartfelt toast at your rehearsal dinner, these moments will make your wedding journey even more special for everyone involved and show that you truly care.
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