His Girlfriend Admitted She Lost Her Love For Him And Was Mostly Just Dating Him For His Looks, So He Dumped Her
This 24-year-old guy and his girlfriend, who’s 26, were together for three years, and the last four months of their relationship were long-distance due to graduate school.
But, even though they both FaceTimed each other every single day while apart, he realized that something felt off after he finally got to visit his girlfriend in person.
“I quickly got over it, and it began to feel normal for me,” he recalled.
His girlfriend, on the other hand, admitted that she’d actually lost love for him and felt like their “spark” was gone. She even claimed to love him as a person but not as a partner.
Now, that was about four weeks ago, and afterward, they kept breaking up and getting back together practically every week. At the same time, they were still long distance.
Throughout all of this, it eventually became clear to him that his girlfriend wasn’t with him for the right reasons, either.
The first red flag was when she opened up about seeing a different, attractive guy one day and wondering what it would be like to date that man instead of him.
Then, just yesterday, his girlfriend revealed that she was no longer attracted to him as a person and was mostly just dating him for his appearance.
He realizes that, from an “objective” perspective, he has great features, and many people in his life believe he’s attractive. Nonetheless, he had no interest in being a “trophy boyfriend.”
Drobot Dean – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
“She said she still loves me and wants to care for me, but she thinks if my looks fade, which they will, then she would have a tougher time loving me,” he explained.
This pushed him to end their relationship once and for all. He genuinely loved his girlfriend for more than just her appearance, and he pointed out how, even if they got older, he’d always love her.
His girlfriend didn’t feel the same and stated she “didn’t know” whether she’d still love him if he got older and “uglier.”
“I really wanted to marry this girl and believed in [our relationship] through sickness and health, etc., but I guess she didn’t,” he vented.
And after breaking up with her for good, he’s wondering if he made the right move.
“Am I asking too much for someone to love me for me and not my looks?” he asked.
Doesn’t he deserve someone who loves him no matter what? Was calling it quits the best thing to do?
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