Her Boyfriend Made Her Cry On Vacation, So She No Longer Wants To Move In With Him
For the last year, this 24-year-old girl has been dating her boyfriend, who is also 24. Her boyfriend has been saying he really wants to move in with her as soon as possible, but they recently went on vacation together, and she saw a side to her boyfriend that she absolutely hates.
Now, her boyfriend has a mean habit of joking about how people look, but his jokes are hurtful and not cool.
She says her boyfriend is overweight, so he shouldn’t be making fun of others for this reason, but he does anyway.
One night, while they were getting ready to go out to dinner on vacation, her boyfriend started joking about how huge her arms were.
“I got upset and started to cry. I felt so insecure. I’m very fit and muscular, and I’m always worried I look “masculine,” so it’s a hurtful spot for me,” she explained.
“When I started to cry, he walked out of the hotel, slammed the door behind him, and said, “When you’re ready, I’ll be downstairs.”
They did have a discussion, and her boyfriend said he was angry with her for not being able to be teased.
He even said he’s tired of having to watch his words for fear of upsetting her. But then he kind of understood why she was unhappy, and he mentioned that he would no longer make negative remarks about her appearance.
Two hours after that conversation, her boyfriend said he thought her makeup looked messed up that day.
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When their vacation was over and they got on the plane home, her boyfriend’s behavior didn’t improve.
“I was really bothered by his behavior on the flight back home. It was only a 5-hour flight, but he was ordering SO much food, leaving [a] mess everywhere,” she said.
Her boyfriend then asked her to disturb the man sleeping next to her so that she could go through his overhead bag and get something for him, but she refused. She didn’t think it was fair to wake up the man next to her.
What irritated her the most was that her boyfriend wasn’t listening to the flight attendant about buckling his seatbelt and putting his phone on airplane mode.
Her boyfriend obviously ignored the flight attendant and instead posted selfies online. When she asked her boyfriend to please pay attention, he freaked out on her and said she’s not his mom.
She felt humiliated by his public outburst, and she had to try her best not to cry in front of everyone on the plane. Ten minutes later, he grabbed her hand and said he loved her.
She feels like her boyfriend ruined their vacation, made it all about him, and acted in such a rude, awful way.
Her boyfriend doesn’t see this and thinks everything was great. When they did get home, he brought up moving in together again.
“But his behavior on this trip turned me off him completely,” she added. “How do I tell him I don’t want to move in? He’s going to be hurt. I know it.”
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