Chip Chick
“I’m 40 and I could never be with a man who had young kids, none of that would fit with my future goals in life.”
“Plus why do I want to be in my 50’s dealing with teenagers? You also have to realize that SIL is never going away.”
“She’s the aunt to his kids and will always be in their lives. Your neighbor and her are probably trauma bonded due to the loss of their wife and sister.”
“It’s actually not completely uncommon for two people to get together who have lost a shared loved one. If you stay with this man, she will always cause you insecurity and jealousy, unless you can learn to deal with her.”
“Personally, at the age of 40, I want the rest of my life to be calm and relaxing, not filled with kids and jealousy issues, but you have to decide if this man is worth these hurdles.”
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