Chip Chick
She’s bothered by his sister-in-law clearly showing behavior that suggests she is truly interested in him.
She is really in love with her neighbor, and if he did not have his 2 young children, she would be all-in. She isn’t sure about having to be a mom at her age, and she doesn’t want to make hasty choices here.
“I am trying not to repeat mistakes from my marriage,” she continued. “But I have been the happiest I have been since my divorce and I do not want to lose that.”
“But with his sister-in-law sulking around, I fear that the choice will be made for me. At this point, I wish he would give me an ultimatum to make me choose.”
“But this slow death of the time that we spent together and watching from my window someone that I know is moving in on the person I love is killing me. I just do not want to make a choice that I will regret or that all of us will regret.”
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“Thank you for being honest and acknowledging that starting over with kids may not be the right choice for you.”
“So many men and women pursued relationships knowing they don’t want kids and in time, those children end up feeling that vibe.”
“In all honesty, you may need to let this relationship go. It is not because you are a bad person or not emotionally connected to this man.”
“It is because you are not compatible in terms of lifestyle and that’s ok. His kids will always be first as they should. You have already reared your children and deserve to have time for you.”
“Maybe you may change your mind but right now. When the doubt is so real, let him go.”
